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... I can't even tell you how much I find wrong with this sentence.
I'll be honest, I saw this thread and was like "wtf why would someone ask for GF advice on SDN, worst place for advice ever" but then I looked at the question.
I was in the EXACT same situation, dating a girl a year younger, applying to med, she got all into her non-premed major, etc.. and she would be stressed out all the time, which pissed me off because I'd have things that would be really stressful that I'd be dealing with and she'd stress over a joke class quiz all the time. If it's not working now, it's not going to work out in the future. I dragged it out for a bit until we finally had to pull the plug on it. We had dated for years but it became that situation that you described and it's hard to do but in my situation, it just compounded and got worse.
... I can't even tell you how much I find wrong with this sentence.
I suggest you tell her that yes, she is being a terrible girlfriend and break down her self-esteem. After demolishing your poor significant other's self-worth, your guilt will lead you into a downward spiral of jealousy and paranoia. You won't let her out of your sight, nor will you be able to be around her. You'll begin drinking and arguing over her leaving the ironing board out. You'll fail out of medical school and spend time "flipping" houses which never sell in between your alcohol induced feuds. You'll whistle for a cab and when it comes near the license plate says fresh and it has dice in the mirror. If anything i can say this cab is rare but you thought naw forget it yo homes to Bel Air. You pulled up to the house about 7 or 8 and yelled to the cabyo homes smell ya later. Looked at your kingdom, you was finally there to sit on your throne as the Prince of Bel Air.
Just make sure she won't tell you she hates you the night before you take your MCAT.
I advise you to impregnate her, and then pressure her to drop out. This will free up time. Remind her that, in the end, it's about the baby.
Then if you're still not feeling it, just bail
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Good luck! And waiting until you're settled in your career before dating is sort of a stupid idea. How long are you going to wait? Until you're in med school? Finished med school? Finished residency? Finished your fellowships? Finished paying off your student debts? You could be waiting *years*. Do you really want to have spent all of your twenties single? You don't really want to be entering the dating market in your thirties with no relationship experience. Not to mention, that's a pretty boring and lonely time ahead of you.
lol you make it sound like its essential to be in a relationship
b-b-but how do i define myself without a significant other?!?!?!?!?!?!
b-b-but how do i define myself without a significant other?!?!?!?!?!?!
drop that H*EI was just wondering if you guys have had similar experiences. My current girlfriend of half year has really gotten into her major and has been just spending hours at the library (she is not premed). She is a year younger, and she just seems stressed all the time, everytime I see her and pick her up from the library she's in a bad mood and is just stressed about everything. I've been cooking for her a lot and making lots of time to see her.
We love each other, but I am not sure next year if I go to med school she would be the supportive girlfriend that I want to have. And we've talked about all this she always says next semster will be easier and I'll have more time but it hasn't been like that. Am I being super selfish and want too much? she says she's been a bad girlfriend but hasn't done anything to change that. Is this something we just need to work through? I don't know if anyone had similar experiences with their significant other, and does it get better? Thanks!
lol you make it sound like its essential to be in a relationship
Of course it's not essential to be in a relationship, but spending an entire decade of your life abstaining from relationships doesn't sound like much fun either. Especially when that decade is your 20s, the peak of your youth, looks, sex drive, etc. Plus, since I'm not down with random hook-ups and casual sex, my options are either to stay celibate (is that even an option?) or invest the time and effort to date. Clearly, I prefer the latter.
just wrap it
also, contrary to what logic may tell you, double wrapping does not, in fact, protect you twice as much.
the added friction from 2 raincoats increases the risk of a hole in the protection.
Seriously, without the Fresh Prince lyrics, this thread would be a crazy waste of space...
Sorry the relationship is having trouble. I'm a relationship cynic myself - that's what 5 yrs. of marriage does for you.
When your parents, as well as most of your friends parents are all divorced, relationships (marriage especially) just don't seem that appealing.
On the bright side, how could you throw a divorce party without divorce?