While I wont start until next year, I really get this feeling that it's some sort of requirement that you have to act like you are always busy, and your life is study study study while you are in medical school.
So far, from what I've seen, when medical students are in front of a group of people (such as interviewees), they put on this show that they're always busting their asses. For example, I hear things like, "oh I never have time for that anymore," or "what do you mean what do I do outside of class? I STUDY!" Furthermore, when groups of medical students have casual conversations with interviewees, many times I've heard one student say to another, "how do you have time for that with all this work?!" (or something to that extent).
But I've learned that when I've talked to medical students one on one, or with a smaller group of interviewees the medical student may be trying to....'impress' might be the word? Then they seem to be a bit more 'real' and confess that they actually do go out, and they do have time to partake in things other than school.
I'm going to go ahead and throw something out that NickNaylor told me that really helped me understand what the contrast is between undergrad and medical school....
While the material is medical school is not small in volume or always easy to understand, your main job in medical school is to understand it. That's it. Go to class, go home, and study the amount you think you need to get the grade you want. Now there is research and some volunteering you do, but it's not astronomical.
Now think of undergrad...Many of us worked, took crazy amounts of units, many science classes at the same time, volunteered EVERY WEEK at some clinical or non-clinical location, was involved in at least one club(maybe even an officer), did research, maybe even played sports. On top of all that, we are busting our asses to do that absolute best we can do in our coursework to help ensure we get the grades to get into medical school. No one is ever coming into a class with the goal to simply 'pass,' we want to know this crap like the backs of our hands by the time we are through because we all know we'll see this material again when we take the MCAT.
Combine all those things we have done as undergrads, it's not unusual that we were doing any combination of these activities throughout the day from the moment we woke up, until late at night--and more than five days a week.
And that's why I cant ****ing wait for medical school.