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OP - I think you have to decide which life will be most rewarding, not which specialty or which lifestyle alone. No amount of fascination with your work is worth hell at home - unhappy/detached spouse, minimal involvement in the lives of your children, minimal time for personal leisure, etc. Likewise, no extent of lifestyle extravagance is worth going through the motions with zero enthusiasm for 60+ hours/week x30 years. I'm sure there are rare exceptions. Otherwise you have to find a way to pick which one will be most likely to give you the best balance between the two, and only you can know that.
Also, to the "average American family only has $x..." saintly posters - We are not average American families. There's nothing wrong with discussing different salaries within niches of an occupation as it pertains to lifestyle. It's extremely relevant to career choice and such discussions are commonplace in every other occupation, so why should we feel ashamed? Physicians have higher rates of divorce, substance abuse & suicide than any other occupation. Certain aspects of physician lifestyle absolutely contribute to those high rates. Money, without a doubt, is one contributor to lifestyle. If you haven't considered how it might affect your lifestyle and overall satisfaction with your career, you probably should.
Also, to the "average American family only has $x..." saintly posters - We are not average American families. There's nothing wrong with discussing different salaries within niches of an occupation as it pertains to lifestyle. It's extremely relevant to career choice and such discussions are commonplace in every other occupation, so why should we feel ashamed? Physicians have higher rates of divorce, substance abuse & suicide than any other occupation. Certain aspects of physician lifestyle absolutely contribute to those high rates. Money, without a doubt, is one contributor to lifestyle. If you haven't considered how it might affect your lifestyle and overall satisfaction with your career, you probably should.
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