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Hi guys! Figured the nontrad forum would be the best place for this conversation.
So, I'm wondering how you guys/gals with SOs/spouses plan to make medical school costs work. On one hand, if you get into a school in a low cost of living area, having a spouse that can work is a huge advantage. On the other, if your top choice is in a super high cost of living area and your spouse does not make excellent money, even a spouse that works full time may not be able to pay the bills alone.
It seems like in high cost of living areas, it's advantageous to be single - single people can take $600-$700 bucks a month to live in one bedroom in a four+ bedroom house/apartment with utilities included. A two bedroom apartment is going to cost us $1600+ near my top choice school.
So, my choices are chasing the dream and taking out full COA loans to supplement spousal income to go to my top choice school, or going somewhere that my spouse can pay living expenses independently and having both of us be vastly more dissatisfied. He also wants to live in the higher COL area, but is open to moving wherever I decide in the end.
It's a big price tag difference - likely $400k in loans for my top choice school, whereas if I take my least expensive acceptance, I'll only have to take out tuition and can likely get out under $180k.
What are your thoughts? How much, in dollars, is satisfaction with where you live worth?
So, I'm wondering how you guys/gals with SOs/spouses plan to make medical school costs work. On one hand, if you get into a school in a low cost of living area, having a spouse that can work is a huge advantage. On the other, if your top choice is in a super high cost of living area and your spouse does not make excellent money, even a spouse that works full time may not be able to pay the bills alone.
It seems like in high cost of living areas, it's advantageous to be single - single people can take $600-$700 bucks a month to live in one bedroom in a four+ bedroom house/apartment with utilities included. A two bedroom apartment is going to cost us $1600+ near my top choice school.
So, my choices are chasing the dream and taking out full COA loans to supplement spousal income to go to my top choice school, or going somewhere that my spouse can pay living expenses independently and having both of us be vastly more dissatisfied. He also wants to live in the higher COL area, but is open to moving wherever I decide in the end.
It's a big price tag difference - likely $400k in loans for my top choice school, whereas if I take my least expensive acceptance, I'll only have to take out tuition and can likely get out under $180k.
What are your thoughts? How much, in dollars, is satisfaction with where you live worth?