I think that if mini worked hard enough to have the ability to get accepted to more than one program, then she has the right to take the time she needs to pick the best program that will help her be the most successful. It is a very hard decision, and I am also about to give deposit to two schools. I understand that there are still people hoping for acceptances, one of which is my best friend. But I worked much harder in undergrad than she (my best firent) did, so it is not selfish to put down two deposits when I feel that I need just a little more time to be sure. Eventually one of those spots will open up. Granted all of us are in different situations, and all of us are entitled to our own opinions, but do what you feel you need to do right now. If you worked hard enough to have that privilage then you deserve that right.