I actually quite like San Diego, and if I didn't rely on working there, or have to pay taxes I would move there in a minute.
That being said, $240K per year is $20K per month. I am assuming you are W2 so your employer pays most of your Payroll taxes. If you are 1099 the situation is a whole lot worse. Let's break it down:
$20,000/month
- $7000 state and federal taxes (your effective federal tax is 22.79% and CA state 7.87%)
- $4500 401K contribution
- $2300 rent (must be a small apartment!)
- $230 health insurance
- $600 other expenses
- $3000 for student loans
= $2370/month left over. I haven't included food, entertainment, or other expenses. While you can live an okay lifestyle, you certainly won't have a lot of disposable income. Your wife is not earning a salary yet?
OP states that he is 1099 so he pays for everything including higher Taxes but he gets more deductions.
Seriously, making 240K in his situation really makes very little sense. Also, I don't see much left over for retirement.
20K/mo - 3k loans - 7k taxes (low) - 2.3k rent - 1k (car/utilities/health insurance/disability) - 700 other expenses = 14K
With 6K left, you will be left with nothing to put into retirement. Trust me.
Travel fund 1k/mo (trust me you will be over this), Food/going out/restaurants (1K), Cell/Internet/directv - 400. Misc - 600
You have 3k.
Life happens, car breaks down, car insurance, license fees, clothes, house supplies, water, electricity, gas, Amazon, etc..... 3K/mo
Trust me... you will spend 1-2 k a month on stuff that makes life comfortable but prob can live with out.
Medical Deductible, medical emergencies, life emergencies.
What happens when you have a kid? They are 1-2K/mo if you don't have daycare. have daycare and add another 1-2K/mo
After a year of doing this, you will have saves nothing for a house, nothing in retirement.
You will be living check to check, have months where you are short and put things on credit card.
There are expenses that you have not even considered or thought about. Your budget is not detailed enough to account for "life stuff" that will be 1-2K easy.