I was a terrible high school student. Cut class, slept in class...more concerned with making people laugh than learning anything...just an all around clown. Never studied. Realized my HS grades were laughable, so I decided I would go AF after school, but something out of my control deterred that. Two (three years now that 2014 is nearing, actually) I've just completed my hefty first semester of college with a 4.0. Don't think I'd made an A in anything other than PE since middle school. Something that I'd prefer to not discuss happened in between my gap years, but it made me appreciate the time I had and re-tuned my mind as it pertains to what I found important. That, in combination to being a little older and wiser, played a huge part. I'm completely focused and set on a goal, and that helps keep me balanced.
Sometimes we have to go through some crazy circumstances, other times we simply have to grow up - sometimes, both. It's crazy, because my closest friends went off to university after graduation, and now they're at a loss of what to do... facing academic probation, ext. It was the complete opposite for me (I was dejected from the concept of going to college after HS and had poor grades to boot) I'm just happy I was able to figure it out before I started college with the same lackadaisical mindset I possessed as a naive, flippant teenager.