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Mr/Ms/MRS etc in front of patients. First names if both of you are ok with that otherwise. "Darling" or "Honey" if pillow talk.
I'm from the west coast that is much less hung up on titles. I was also just Lisa until I moved to the southeast where patients were uncomfortable with that and my docs insisted on being called Dr So-and-So. They insisted on calling me Ms. So-and-So, or Mrs. which is worse (makes me sound like a teacher or something). Some have tried PA So-and-So or PA Lisa but those don't work well.
I did just start part-time work in a women's prison and was told NOT to use my first name with inmates but to be as formal as possible. I guess this makes sense. They do the PA Last Name thing. One of my colleagues pointed out she would rather these women NOT know her last name. She has a point 😉
I try to use formal titles when addressing people in the hospital (eg, Nurse Roberts, Dr. Cox), but I'm at a loss for how to address PAs? Is it Mr./Ms./Mrs. or is there something else I can use?!
Try a P.O. Box. If all else fails, ask them for their residential address.
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What we have here is a failure to communicate.
I was being a smartass. 😛
Try a P.O. Box. If all else fails, ask them for their residential address.
Just curious -- where do you all live where you would address a nurse/PA by "nurse (last name) or Mr./Mrs. _____ ?
I've worked in a couple hospitals and I would never even think to address a nurse or PA by anything other than their first name, even in front of a patient, and I've never seen anyone else do this. Of course with physicians it is always Dr. _____.
I'm wondering if this is maybe more of a southern vs. northern thing or something.
Just curious -- where do you all live where you would address a nurse/PA by "nurse (last name) or Mr./Mrs. _____ ?
I'm wondering if this is maybe more of a southern vs. northern thing or something.
Just curious -- where do you all live where you would address a nurse/PA by "nurse (last name) or Mr./Mrs. _____ ?
I've worked in a couple hospitals and I would never even think to address a nurse or PA by anything other than their first name, even in front of a patient, and I've never seen anyone else do this. Of course with physicians it is always Dr. _____.
I'm wondering if this is maybe more of a southern vs. northern thing or something.
Depends on your comfort level, and what the other person wants.....
I am a PA, and I have a research doctorate. I always just go by my first name in any setting. If I am addressed as "Dr" in the clinical setting, I usually simply correct it and move on. If it is in the research, education, or health policy settings, I will go by Dr. if someone addresses me as that, but otherwise it's just Mike.
Actually, unless it is in front of a patient, I haven't addressed a physician as "Dr" in longer than I can remember.
We are a team. We need to work together, and nothing hinders good teamwork faster than unnecessary friction caused by ego or whatever you want to call it.
Depends on your comfort level, and what the other person wants.....
I am a PA, and I have a research doctorate. I always just go by my first name in any setting. If I am addressed as "Dr" in the clinical setting, I usually simply correct it and move on. If it is in the research, education, or health policy settings, I will go by Dr. if someone addresses me as that, but otherwise it's just Mike.
Actually, unless it is in front of a patient, I haven't addressed a physician as "Dr" in longer than I can remember.
We are a team. We need to work together, and nothing hinders good teamwork faster than unnecessary friction caused by ego or whatever you want to call it.

"hey you!"
or
"yo!"
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"Hey, sexy mama!"
