bullard said:
I'm just an intern, but I couldn't disagree with this more. Asking a nurse a question (well, assuming it's not utterly stupid) is showing them some respect, and they will pay it back to you. I actually spent some uninterrupted time in the call room on my unit month, whch is more than some of my cockier cointerns can say.
we'll see. good luck. it has been my observation, not experience (those concepts are different), that interns who ask the nurse how to do too many things are the ones that will not get any respect when push comes to shove. suddenly, orders are instead seen as suggestions. requests for certain things to get done urgently get ignored. being too nice and asking to be shown how to do things, even though you're probably doing so to try to avoid it, will ultimately lead to confrontation. i've seen it before. point is, you can be friendly without befriending. take those words to heart. if you don't know how to do something or what something means, that's what your seniors are there for. it is, quite frankly, disrespectful not to give them the opportunity to teach you first.
but, having said that, the whole "asking for help" does ultimately depend on the situation. for example, when running a code and having run out of ideas after you're loading up your fourth pressor, it doesn't hurt to ask out loud "anyone else have any other ideas?" or the sort. that shows respect, and occasionally someone does have a good idea. just don't make a habit of it. remember, you are the doctor. you're already battling the perception with some of them - not all of them - that they've been doing this longer and that they are smarter than you, which may or may not be true. point is, don't feed that.
the fact is that many perceive interns for many different reasons as being an easy target. i really work hard to teach and protect my interns and med students. so, if you're working with me, come ask me first if you don't know something. don't disrespect that offer. or, if you'd rather be a nurse, quit and go to nursing school.
p.s. btw, i was never called out at 3 a.m. for b.s. as an intern, except at the VA. and, actually, there were more than a few times i wished i had been called when i wasn't.