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As a PGY-1 I find impressive that some of my co-interns have the time or energy to hang out. I went with them a few times (almost exclusively while I was on neurology consults, when I could actually leave at a reasonable hour, bless you neurologists!) and while it's nice to build up a bit of camaraderie, I feel the best use of my time is to go directly home and sleep, or maybe do once monthly exercise. Is that unreasonable?
The other social functions are program-related. The PD invited all of us to his house in a couple of weekends and again I'm not sure what is to be gained in that setting other than losing half of a precious weekend day off watching everyone squirm to avoid saying the wrong thing while making small talk, or worse, having to listen to THAT annoying intern talk about some supposed achievement med student gunner style, without getting the urge to shut them down. But if I don't go...
Bottom line is, what benefit/detriment can these events have and is it safe to politely decline and feign an obligation? 🙂
The other social functions are program-related. The PD invited all of us to his house in a couple of weekends and again I'm not sure what is to be gained in that setting other than losing half of a precious weekend day off watching everyone squirm to avoid saying the wrong thing while making small talk, or worse, having to listen to THAT annoying intern talk about some supposed achievement med student gunner style, without getting the urge to shut them down. But if I don't go...
Bottom line is, what benefit/detriment can these events have and is it safe to politely decline and feign an obligation? 🙂