how to recandle the passion in a long distant relationship

[V4viet]

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My gf and I have been dating for 3 months..and I haven't seen her for 1 month due to long distant..I'm in med school and she's a business owner who's starting out a brand new business..so the first 3-4 months is rough and time consuming..she doesn't have much time to talk etc..and lately we've been arguing about dumb things..and the passion is kind of faiding.it's hard to spark up passion in a relationship when you're so far away...how do you guys do it? she said she's no where near giving up on us....have you guys lost passion in your long distant relationship b4..I love her w/ all of my heart and want to make this work..any advice? or what i can say or can't say..etc

 

[Pekoe]

I told one of our other guys this-- get into the mail with her. Send her funny , hand drawn post cards from time to time. (Include your studies. She'll dig it or call you a nerd and Bill Gates was a nerd so just laugh!) I buy ones in art stores like small water color blocks. I have a serious phobia about putting a stamp in the upper right hand corner so I put it anywhere. Stamps are like stickers-- I buy them so as long as I use more than the required postage, the post office doesn't care.

If you put the address on the long side instead of the short, it's an extra ten cents.

The mail art is a great distraction when you need it and you will feel like you "did" something for her when you think of her late at night and know that calling will disturb her sleep. (I send mail art to everyone. It becomes a gift of my time and talent.)

I can't believe that I admitted my phobia. If it's a business letter, I turn it upside down to look like it was an accident in putting postage on a bunch of letters so it goes in the lower left hand corner.