How/where do you find ppl to date?

[christina30]

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Yeah, you're right. Some ugly women have horrible personalities that even a six pack won't fix .

RUDE.

Personally, I'm hot (whatever, humility is overrated) and I like to think my personality is tolerable, and for a long time I couldn't get a date to save my life. It's rough out there sometimes, man.

 

[Mithril]

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[christina30]

I wasn't being serious, calm down with your photos!

 

[rHinO1]

RUDE.

Personally, I'm hot (whatever, humility is overrated) and I like to think my personality is tolerable, and for a long time I couldn't get a date to save my life. It's rough out there sometimes, man.

Nothing on this thread should be taken seriously, so don't let your feelings get hurt. Congrats on the hotness, but "tolerable" doesn't do it for me 😛.

 

[christina30]

Nothing on this thread should be taken seriously, so don't let your feelings get hurt. Congrats on the hotness, but "tolerable" doesn't do it for me 😛.

I'm purposely being ridiculous

Who says "RUDE" other than Stephanie Tanner? cmon now.

 

[circulus vitios]

You can always try breeding with ponies, too, if humans don't work out.

http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=horse+girl

 

[curlytop]

I'm purposely being ridiculous

Who says "RUDE" other than Stephanie Tanner? cmon now.

 

[cwwm]

Dating is kind of like an experiment. The scientific method can actually be employed. Ask a question: is this person right for me? Background research: this person has qualities that I like. Hypothesis: this person is a good match for me. Test: the date. Analyze and draw conclusion: Personalities didn't match Result: hypothesis nullified.

only on SDN

 

[Kevin Baker]

Try online dating. It's easy, not intimidating, and you can wait until you're comfortable with someone to meet them.

I will add that every person I've talked to over 20 that has never dated, regardless of gender, either was ignorant of many signals or had WAY too high standards.

 

[curlytop]

Try online dating. It's easy, not intimidating, and you can wait until you're comfortable with someone to meet them.

I will add that every person I've talked to over 20 that has never dated, regardless of gender, either was ignorant of many signals or had WAY too high standards.

Hey OP, maybe you should go out with a couple girlfriends who can show you ropes when it comes to flirting and interpreting guys' signals to you?

 

[unhappytnt]

I thought that name was familiar....

http://forums.studentdoctor.net/showthread.php?t=762589

I was gonna write a serious response until I saw this. "Annoying anti-social premeds". Good find.😀

 

[NickNaylor]

According to the laws of physics, chemistry and biology: females do not need to "work" to get a date beyond possessing the characteristics of being a "female". Even if you were hideous and even if you were the only person that did not know this reality as factual -- there would still be a surplus of guys trying to get with you under certain reaction conditions [perhaps an ethanol-laden one or maybe without hv].

In other words, my dear, riddle me this: if thou hath not ever had a beau, why does thou keepth oneself continually tucked away breeding ponies?

In other words, my dear: Go to a bar. Stay until closing. Smile and wink. Problem solved, you will be ordering your monthly pack of ortho tri-cyclen before you know it. 👍

Another A+ post. You're on a roll Frazier.

 

[shinee]

ehh I know how you feel 🙁 Im in sorta the same position as you right now. I meet guys, but majority of them only wants to get in my pants. basically chew and ditch, but im not into that.

I feel like im on a quest to meet a unicorn, but always running into donkeys -__-

anyways, how about guys in your school? classes? start a convo if you can. join a club, thats always a great way to meet someone. school gathering or events with lots of people is nice. or clubing (but thats risky, some guys are pigs) and if all things fail, you should give dating website a try.
personally the guys ive dated are all from school, some of them through friends and others randomly asks me lol.

good luck 🙂

P.S just be yourself, you don't want people to be mistaking for something your not. If its ment to be it will happen!!

 

[MCAT guy]

RUDE.

Personally, I'm hot (whatever, humility is overrated) and I like to think my personality is tolerable, and for a long time I couldn't get a date to save my life. It's rough out there sometimes, man.

Hot + tolerable are my only two requirements for the opposite sex.

 

[305602]

I meet guys, but majority of them only wants to get in my pants. basically chew and ditch, but im not into that.

😱 Yikes I've never heard it put that way before. 😱

 

[StudyShy]

If I can find a man, anyone can find a man. Don't worry about it too much. The right guy will show up. Don't put the penis on a pedestal. 🙂

 

[the duck]

I find it amazing that girl actually worry about getting guys. Last time I checked, girls are like giant magnates, guys just come flying towards them and girls have to push them away.

OP: We should go out, I've never had a girlfriend 🙁, and I am moderately good looking, and have a decant personality.... 😳 Do you have to put up with the fact I'm a bird, however.

 

[Snuke]

I hope no one takes OP seriously - on another thread it was decided that OP was a guy. Did something change in the interim?

 

[StudyShy]

Do you have to put up with the fact I'm a bird, however.

 

[therick248]

Who would want to go on a date with a ponybreeder?

 

[s1lver]

I sometimes do the online dating thingie on OKCupid and sometimes on Plethora of Fatties (aka plentyoffish.com). Craig's List is there if you want sex ASAP.

 

[Doc of the Walk]

This you?

 

[Mauricia]

I know someone mentioned this already, but I have to bring it up again. ponybreeder are you male or female? both? why is this thread still happening?

 

[ILikeDrugs]

why is this thread still happening?

Because certain people keep bumping it. 😉

 

[Geneticist]

I'm...in love?

 

[addo]

I wasn't being serious, calm down with your photos!

were you not being serious about being hot, or about not being able to get any dates?

 

[MCATism]

Take a computer science class.
More desperate, sexually-repressed undergraduate men than you could possibly handle.

 

[Mithril]

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[iralex801]

I love SDN for these threads lol. Anyways, IMO its probably because your not good at flirting.

 

[Etzio]

maybe i am boring. how can i not be boring any ideas?
but honestly, i know so many boring looking girls in relationships that its hard for me to believe only pretty looking ones have guys.

Hey OP most of these people on here don't know where your coming from, and most probably had this kind of easy for them their whole lives.

I didn't, and I am in many ways like you. In my 2.5 years of college I have only kissed two women and "dated" one for a week before she broke with me so I have also never had a real relationship like you. Furthermore, 95% of my social circle have bfs or gfs. Hell my roommate falls into that category and I, like you, can't help but feel lonely on occasion. Its a perfectly normal and natural human reaction and feeling when we see others in relationship.

I don't know if im "boring" (im told im pretty entertaining when im drunk or high), but I generally don't think boring describes me, and im sure that you aren't either. The way I deal with this is that whenever those negative thoughts about me having a lack of love while everyone else is crosses my mind, I shut it off and think of something - anything- positive. I haven't perfected it yet, and still have quite a ways to go, but its helped me deal with it a lot better than before.

Furthermore try to be in the moment as much as you can. My main focus right now is to turn my life around so that I can be competitive for med school. If you focus on a passion or purpose, and make that your all, you will get confidence, and that will naturally attract people to you. That is my belief, and I hope that it speaks to you in some way.

Good luck.

 

[cclewis]

In a previous posting on SDN, OP stated that HE was the president of a fraternity.
http://forums.studentdoctor.net/showthread.php?t=762589


"being president of your frat and performing in the marching band takes away a good amount of time too...but u ppl who spent all ur time in the library wouldnt know that cuz u havent had any real responsibility"

 

[projectpat]

According to the laws of physics, chemistry and biology: females do not need to "work" to get a date beyond possessing the characteristics of being a "female". Even if you were hideous and even if you were the only person that did not know this reality as factual -- there would still be a surplus of guys trying to get with you under certain reaction conditions [perhaps an ethanol-laden one or maybe without hv].

In other words, my dear, riddle me this: if thou hath not ever had a beau, why does thou keepth oneself continually tucked away breeding ponies?

In other words, my dear: Go to a bar. Stay until closing. Smile and wink. Problem solved, you will be ordering your monthly pack of ortho tri-cyclen before you know it. 👍

I rarely bring myself to post but THANK GOD FOR FRAZIER.. someone speaking the truth.. Funny yet truthful statements

OP, what you've been doing up until now has not worked.. so I'm not saying change yourself, but refine certain characteristics like social skills, body language, and mannerisms. Like Frazier said, even a smile can do wonders..

maybe you're looking for something besides just a date or a boyfriend
And when in doubt, excuse my French, just slut it up

 

[Snarkalark]

here's an easy strategy: dress slutty and go to a trashy college bar. if you flaunt it, they will come.

it's so much more difficult for guys; you should consider yourself lucky.

 

[the duck]

In a previous posting on SDN, OP stated that HE was the president of a fraternity.
http://forums.studentdoctor.net/showthread.php?t=762589


"being president of your frat and performing in the marching band takes away a good amount of time too...but u ppl who spent all ur time in the library wouldnt know that cuz u havent had any real responsibility"

I like how a bunch of people keep posting this, yet tons of other people completing ignore it and type out real responses. I


Early person quoting me: F'n spell check 😳

 

[arclight610]

My wife and I met through a Christian small group

 

[Snarkalark]

I like how a bunch of people keep posting this, yet tons of other people completing ignore it and type out real responses. I


Early person quoting me: F'n spell check 😳

lol, any thread with >30 responses is tldr material.

 

[StudyShy]

He's a gay Peruvian with ADD. 🙂

 

[hopki099]

In a previous posting on SDN, OP stated that HE was the president of a fraternity.
http://forums.studentdoctor.net/showthread.php?t=762589


"being president of your frat and performing in the marching band takes away a good amount of time too...but u ppl who spent all ur time in the library wouldnt know that cuz u havent had any real responsibility"

At my university, there are at least a couple co-ed fraternities, so it is possible that a girl could be president of a frat.