Emergent at 38 yrs old was debt free other than his house. Had about 1M in retirement/assets. Had 3 kids, wife stay at home, and made 350K/yr. Emergent38 could have called it quits and retire. Kids all in public school. Only cheap road trip/camping vacations. Downsize house from a 5500sqft to a 1500sq feet home, take a equity and have 200K in the bank.
Emergent38 family would then be living in a 1500 sqft home, live off 30K/yr in a plot of land in the sticks, grow his own veggies.
Emergent at 50 yrs old have 8M in retirement/assets. Have 3 kids in private schools. Trips are plentiful, inflation doesn't even cause him to flinch.
Is emergent50 any happier than emergent38? Its debatable but the lack of money stress takes a huge stressor off his plate. Money in itself doesn't make someone happier, but being able to do whatever/whenever he wants sure is a great experience. In the past 2 yrs, emergent50 has been to Boston, Niagra falls, Monticello, Hershey park, Smoky mountains, NYC, Wash DC, Destin x 2, Yellowstone, Grand Teton, Las vegas, Keystone ski x2, Heavenly ski. These experiences and doing it with the family/kids is invaluable.