I got an interview at one of my top choices and feel so horrible about my performance. Anyone felt the same after an interview and got an A or WL?

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Interviewed last week and still thinking about it. Honestly felt I did very poorly on the interview. I ran out of time to speak during a group interview and couldn't figure out an MMI problem. It was probably my fault for being too nervous and all I can do is work on improving for my next interview. But I thought I might as well ask if anyone dealt with similar feelings and what was the outcome?
 
I'm dealing with similar feelings about an interview I recently had. A few of the MMI stations were definitely designed to be stressful and although I understood that it kinda of pissed me off, plus my MCAT is like 5 points below that school's median. I'll lyk in a couple weeks if my feelings give a good indicator. What's helped me afterwards is thinking about all the reasons I didn't like the school to cope, and if I get in so be it xD.
 
Interviewed last week and still thinking about it. Honestly felt I did very poorly on the interview. I ran out of time to speak during a group interview and couldn't figure out an MMI problem. It was probably my fault for being too nervous and all I can do is work on improving for my next interview. But I thought I might as well ask if anyone dealt with similar feelings and what was the outcome?
Dont stress. First off there's nothing you can do now but prepare for the next interview. Second, this process is quite impossible to predict. What I thought was my worst interview ended up being one of my first acceptances (with a significant merit scholarshop as well). The school I thought I was a shooing to get in sent me the R. And I'm not the only one. This site is full of similar stories because as Goro said, we're bad judges of our own performance
 
I'm dealing with similar feelings about an interview I recently had. A few of the MMI stations were definitely designed to be stressful and although I understood that it kinda of pissed me off, plus my MCAT is like 5 points below that school's median. I'll lyk in a couple weeks if my feelings give a good indicator. What's helped me afterwards is thinking about all the reasons I didn't like the school to cope, and if I get in so be it xD.

What makes you say that? (The bolded part) Did other students feel the same way?
 
What makes you say that? (The bolded part) Did other students feel the same way?
At least for one of them, yes every student felt the same way. For that station, for every answer we gave, the MMI person would point out flaws in the answer and some of the critiques were really reaching and pissed me off. And these critiques weren't normal MMI follow up questions (I've been to three MMIs now, so over 40 stations), they were ridiculous but I had to respond to them and be polite. And another station consisted of the guy interrupting me every 20 seconds in my answer and asking a different question. Maybe that was a specific interviewer, but the entire experience left a really bad taste in my mouth about the school (t10). At the end of the day the Dean asked "how did everyone like the MMI" and everyone was visibly uncomfortable, whereas at other schools everyone loved the MMI and was enthusiastic.
 
I interviewed at a school that I absolutely loved and it was the only school I ended up getting rejected from. Felt pretty beat down about it for a few days and then I didn't remember it after. Keep your chin up, these things happen.
 
At least for one of them, yes every student felt the same way. For that station, for every answer we gave, the MMI person would point out flaws in the answer and some of the critiques were really reaching and pissed me off. And these critiques weren't normal MMI follow up questions (I've been to three MMIs now, so over 40 stations), they were ridiculous but I had to respond to them and be polite. And another station consisted of the guy interrupting me every 20 seconds in my answer and asking a different question. Maybe that was a specific interviewer, but the entire experience left a really bad taste in my mouth about the school (t10). At the end of the day the Dean asked "how did everyone like the MMI" and everyone was visibly uncomfortable, whereas at other schools everyone loved the MMI and was enthusiastic.


The interview is the one part of interview day that is not designed to recruit you to the school. That's just their method of seeing how you work under pressure or in uncomfortable situations
 
The interview is the one part of interview day that is not designed to recruit you to the school. That's just their method of seeing how you work under pressure or in uncomfortable situations
I'd argue otherwise, considering I've had very fun and interesting MMIs and traditional interviews where I emerged even more excited about the school. The interview is the one part of the day where I am given individualized attention, so I'd argue it's the most important part of the day for both the school and myself.
 
I'd argue otherwise, considering I've had very fun and interesting MMIs and traditional interviews where I emerged even more excited about the school. The interview is the one part of the day where I am given individualized attention, so I'd argue it's the most important part of the day for both the school and myself.
I think there's a lot to say from how they treat you during interviews too. For example, at the one MMI I was at, they provided us with water bottles and candy, and also gave us two minutes to rest before having to read/prepare for the next room. In my opinion, that showed me that despite wanting to evaluate us, they are concerned about our mental-being in the process. Afterwards, the organizer (who happened to be the dean of admissions) also solicited feedback, even on the MMI administration, with an open mind. That, to me, showed that the school really cares about student input and that the administration would likely be responsive to feedback in other realms.

I definitely liked that school a lot more because of my interview experience, despite being deep in stress.
 
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The interview is the one part of interview day that is not designed to recruit you to the school. That's just their method of seeing how you work under pressure or in uncomfortable situations

Varies. My interviews at two of my schools definitely included some recruiting.
 
I think there's a lot to say from how they treat you during interviews too. For example, at the one MMI I was at, they provided us with water bottles and candy, and also gave us two minutes to rest before having to read/prepare for the next room. In my opinion, that showed me that despite wanting to evaluate us, they are concerned about our mental-being in the process. Afterwards, the organizer (who happened to be the dean of admissions) also solicited feedback, even on the MMI administration, with an open mind. That, to me, showed that the school really cares about student input and that the administration would likely be responsive to feedback in other realms.

I definitely liked that school a lot more because of my interview experience, despite being deep in stress.
I know which school you’re talking about and am glad you liked it. 🙂
 
Varies. My interviews at two of my schools definitely included some recruiting.
Certainly they can have aspects of recruiting, especially if you interview with the admissions Dean or someone of the like, but like I said, the interview is not designed for recruiting like the rest of the day. The primary purpose is to evaluate you. Sometimes that means being uncomfortable, but that shouldn't be held against the school. I just dont think it's a good environment to use to form an opinion on one's fit at a school.
 
Certainly they can have aspects of recruiting, especially if you interview with the admissions Dean or someone of the like, but like I said, the interview is not designed for recruiting like the rest of the day. The primary purpose is to evaluate you. Sometimes that means being uncomfortable, but that shouldn't be held against the school. I just dont think it's a good environment to use to form an opinion on one's fit at a school.

I disagree a little. I think that we have such little information to go off of when determining fit that we have to use all the information we can. If stress interviews or inappropriate interviewers doesn’t turn you off, then fine. But if I had a rude interviewer, I would definitely report them and it would negatively affect my perception of the school unless they seemed to take it very seriously.
 
I disagree a little. I think that we have such little information to go off of when determining fit that we have to use all the information we can. If stress interviews or inappropriate interviewers doesn’t turn you off, then fine. But if I had a rude interviewer, I would definitely report them and it would negatively affect my perception of the school unless they seemed to take it very seriously.

How can one tell bw a rude/unfair interviewer and a stress interview?
 
How can one tell bw a rude/unfair interviewer and a stress interview?

It might be hard sometimes but I would probably err on the side of reporting it respectfully. But I’m also not afraid to do something like that, whereas most people seem to not feel comfortable doing that. I dunno. I figure if they were just an dingus, they’re probably going to write something negative about me anyway so I might as well report them and have my side of it in there. If it was just a stress interview, they are probably going write that I handled it well (since I don’t usually lose my cool), and reporting won’t negatively affect me.
 
I disagree a little. I think that we have such little information to go off of when determining fit that we have to use all the information we can. If stress interviews or inappropriate interviewers doesn’t turn you off, then fine. But if I had a rude interviewer, I would definitely report them and it would negatively affect my perception of the school unless they seemed to take it very seriously.
Interesting. I had one school where one interviewer was trying to recruit and the other was pretty cold/rude/unfriendly. I don’t think it was inappropriate or even reportable. I gave the best answers I could, even if all he did was move on to the next question.
 
Interesting. I had one school where one interviewer was trying to recruit and the other was pretty cold/rude/unfriendly. I don’t think it was inappropriate or even reportable. I gave the best answers I could, even if all he did was move on to the next question.

Maybe the school doesn’t care, but I think most of them don’t want interviewees coming away from interviews with negative perceptions of the school because of crappy interviewers.
 
Maybe the school doesn’t care, but I think most of them don’t want interviewees coming away from interviews with negative perceptions of the school because of crappy interviewers.
Certainly not. I agree there's nothing wrong with reporting, and maybe you can judge the school better based on their response since institutional action is more indicative of an administration's values than the actions of any individual. I would just encourage everyone to take their interview experiences with a grain of salt. We tend to remember stressful events very well and even if it was someone being rude as opposed to the interview style, it's still just one individual. I'm a fan of keeping the selection of your school as objective as possible, relying on more easily measurable pros and cons like financial aid and geography, so an interview experience, with so much subjectivity introduced from the stress, is the last thing I would consider.
 
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