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Hi everyone.
So I am currently in a dilemma and could really use some advice. I have started the VMCAS application for this cycle and I am pretty far ahead and would say I am making good progress with it. I currently have 2 LORs, one from a professor and one from my research supervisor. As everyone probably knows, at least one LOR must be from a veterinarian (which is required by most schools). My in-state is Davis and they require at least one from a vet. Well, I just finished interning for a vet and asked her for a LOR. She told me that she was not able to write one for me because she is already writing 2 LORs this summer and does not think that she will have time to write another. So, I was basically set on asking her after my internship was over (ie. now), but was not really anticipating her to say no. I know I should have more than 1 vet I can ask, but wait! Let me tell you about my first time trying to apply last year. I had interned for a local vet in my hometown on and off through high school and the beginning of college (during holiday breaks) racking up around 200 hours. She was also our family vet for ~10 years and we had taken our dog to see her when he was alive. Well, when I was attempting to apply last year, I had given her a call to ask for a LOR (I am away for school). She was not able to come to the phone so I left a message with the receptionist. Three days later, there was no call back, so I left another message with the receptionist. STILL, no call back 2 days later. I had left 3 messages with the techs/receptionist, all ensuring that she has got my message and will call back when she can. Well, after 2 weeks of hearing nothing, I decided to just drive back home one weekend and go see her in person. With my luck, I arrived and they told me that she had taken a day off that day
. So I left another message, along with a folder with my 1st draft PS, transcript, experience history, etc. I never got a call back and by the end of around a month of waiting, I finally realized that she was not going to call me back and so I just reluctantly decided that I could not apply this cycle (she was the only vet that I had worked closely with and had a good relationship with, or so I thought). After this incident, I was extremely frustrated, sad, angry, that she could not have given me the courtesy of a phone call. I eventually got over it and "started over" with a new internship in the beginning of June. I just finished and well, again, no LOR for me....🙁
Okay, here is my question. I have been interning for another (different) vet for about a month now and have less than 100 hours working with her. Should I ask this vet, even though I do not know her as well and have the least experience with working with her? I don't feel like she can write me a strong LOR simply because I have not worked with her for that long. I know if I ask, and she says yes, then I can apply and see how everything goes from there. And if she says no, well, then I have no option but to wait until next year.
Sorry for the long post. It honestly feels good to kind of write about this and let all my frustrations out.... Any advice would help! Thank you.
So I am currently in a dilemma and could really use some advice. I have started the VMCAS application for this cycle and I am pretty far ahead and would say I am making good progress with it. I currently have 2 LORs, one from a professor and one from my research supervisor. As everyone probably knows, at least one LOR must be from a veterinarian (which is required by most schools). My in-state is Davis and they require at least one from a vet. Well, I just finished interning for a vet and asked her for a LOR. She told me that she was not able to write one for me because she is already writing 2 LORs this summer and does not think that she will have time to write another. So, I was basically set on asking her after my internship was over (ie. now), but was not really anticipating her to say no. I know I should have more than 1 vet I can ask, but wait! Let me tell you about my first time trying to apply last year. I had interned for a local vet in my hometown on and off through high school and the beginning of college (during holiday breaks) racking up around 200 hours. She was also our family vet for ~10 years and we had taken our dog to see her when he was alive. Well, when I was attempting to apply last year, I had given her a call to ask for a LOR (I am away for school). She was not able to come to the phone so I left a message with the receptionist. Three days later, there was no call back, so I left another message with the receptionist. STILL, no call back 2 days later. I had left 3 messages with the techs/receptionist, all ensuring that she has got my message and will call back when she can. Well, after 2 weeks of hearing nothing, I decided to just drive back home one weekend and go see her in person. With my luck, I arrived and they told me that she had taken a day off that day

Okay, here is my question. I have been interning for another (different) vet for about a month now and have less than 100 hours working with her. Should I ask this vet, even though I do not know her as well and have the least experience with working with her? I don't feel like she can write me a strong LOR simply because I have not worked with her for that long. I know if I ask, and she says yes, then I can apply and see how everything goes from there. And if she says no, well, then I have no option but to wait until next year.
Sorry for the long post. It honestly feels good to kind of write about this and let all my frustrations out.... Any advice would help! Thank you.