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It's quality, not quantity that matters. Looking back, I only keep in touch (not including facebook) with 3-4 people in my class. I also have a couple friends in classes one year after mine.
I wouldn't mind some physical labor to brighten up my day. Exercise spurs neurogenesis, keeps you healthy and is so much better than any gym membership where all you are breathing in is air conditioned air. Or those folks that ride their bikes/run marathons in the polluted city, I just shake my head at them.
In any case I really have no respect for a man that can't change a lightbulb or can't check their car's oil level. Drilling for water is a bit extreme however.
Cool story brah.Hey, we have cadavers too brah. I saw those black lungs and the anatomy PhD. stated it was because the person was an urban dweller and did not smoke too. You may point out the fact that I am in a city but I live outside of it (west of it so fresh air comes in) and commute in only to go to the school.
Why are people in med school clueless/depressed about social life, dating, etc? (well many people in this whole forum actually). It's just surprising to see people who are somewhat hardworking and/or intelligent have no experience in such an important aspect in life.
...But then again, who am I to judge...
Do other people's classmates laugh awkwardly at literally almost every single comment made, no matter if it wasn't even remotely supposed to be funny?
Seriously, a professor could say something like the "the biceps flexes the arm" and I swear at least 3 people would start giggling.
This confuses me.
It's not much about male-ness, but about knowing that you can handle other things in life. On your way to the hospital and you get a flat tire? No problem, you handle it like a boss.I can't be the only one that finds preoccupation with male-ness and male attributes to be a little... weird? (Unless you're looking to get wifed, then I can see the value in having a partner with those skills.) I don't know if my friends can change tires, repair drywall, or put two rounds in a moving target at 30 ft -- and don't care.
Hey, I'm into anime, as well as other "sissy stuff". Doesn't make me into a technologically or practically handicapped fella.Why don't you try meeting your classmates halfway: you may find you like anime, Japanese RPGs, reddit or whatever else your classes' sissy-men are into.
I am well aware that most of my medical career will be consisting of pretty much slavery, as you start at the bottom as an intern and kiss ass all the way.Surely this will end well.
Cool story brah.
do ppl change as step 1 test approaches?
I'm probably the only person of my graduate class that has been successful in farming a huge field of corn in my free time, either because the average person that goes to med school knows zilch about gardening and or because of my peers rather spend 300 dollars of mommy's and daddy's spare cash to get drunk each weekend. Um.. probably more the latter rather than the former.
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My only complaint about the social aspect of medical school is that it sucks for dating. Even as a science major in undergrad, I would typically meet 1-2 girls in my classes each semester that were interested in dating. In medical school, all the attractive girls in my class are already taken or virgins who have had 1 boyfriend their entire lives.
Nice avatar. It's too bad Lyoto Machida is going to take his belt back next weekend.
People don't change, you'll just start to see the side of them they were trying to hide. Its even worse in the 3rd year.
uh, no...most people don't want to farm a giant field of corn on their free time.
Hmm, I was warned last year that by this time (halfway through 2nd year) I'd be sick of at least half my class. Weird thing is I'm not, actually I am kind of a fan. Am I just a big ole weirdo here?
I think it was willen who posted about how annoying med students are on Facebook, and I told him he was being harsh.
I get it now, dude.
"insert comment about how much someone is studying"
"insert a lame joke whose sole purpose is to talk about studying"
"insert lame joke incorporating some random medical topic the person learned to....? Impress their Facebook friends who aren't med students?"
I read these comments day after day and my head is exploding.
you dont like 90% of your class....or 90% of your classmates dont like you?
it goes both ways. change your attitude if you want them to change theirs.
How would you like 90% of my foot in your *****?you dont like 90% of your class....or 90% of your classmates dont like you?
it goes both ways. change your attitude if you want them to change theirs.
Yeah, dating sucks in medical school. Most of my class is married or engaged (4 people got engaged in the last 6 weeks). The remaining girls are on a husband hunt and are quickly getting locked down into serious relationships as the weeks go by. A good chunk of us single guys are on wife hunts (kinda) even though none of us will admit this to ourselves. The age range of the class is 22-37. Finding a quality relationship only gets tougher as med school progresses, then residency, then fellowship (maybe), then private practice. You will never have an ideal time to find someone who is a potential spouse. Unless you wait till your mid to late 30s. I personally don't want to wait that long haha. Fun times.....
You forgot about the nursing school next door to most med schools. However, this advice cannot be applied to the dental school next door. Stay Away!Why would you want to date a classmate anyway? You're limiting yourself to a small relatively homogenous group who in many instances are on average less attractive than the general pop.
I think this phenomenon gets overblown and there are simple solutions.
If you live in a big city/one good for singles then just put yourself out there and you'll meet plenty of people.
If you don't then go to the affiliated undegraduate and graduate events (depending on your age) and meet non-medical people.
If neither applies then use match.com or something similar. I've never used it but have friends who have. If I lived in the middle of nowhere and there wasn't a UG or law or business school around I would consider it.
How would you like 90% of my foot in your *****?