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1. Go to a meeting with your parents in attendance. No lawyer present.
2. Present your facts and ask about the process. Try to find out what their case really is.
3. Your parent spresent, but you do the talking. Be non-threatening. Your parents there is a strong implied threat that your family will vigorously defend this case unless there is absolute proof that you committed the "act".
Actually this is a bad idea. By going in and presenting facts, you are potentially using up whatever rights to a hearing or appeal you may have under the school's administrative procedure. This "get the lawyer later" approach is thus often a mistake. The goal is to get the lawyer before you exhaust your hearing/appeal rights. Once you use them up, you tie his hands significantly in terms of what he can do to help you.