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I hesitated writing this because, well, it's a really weird/****ty situation. However, I've received a lot of great feedback on previous things I've posted so, what the hell?
If you haven't read any of my previous posts, my life in a nutshell: URM, graduated undergrad 10 years ago (really weak GPA), have been an active duty Army officer ever since (deployed overseas, led Soldiers, lost Soldiers, I could write a book), have a Master's degree in something I'm not remotely interested in, married and have a munchkin, figured out what I want to be when I grow up last year, have been studying my ass off ever since (4.0 GPA), recently found out I'm pregnant w/#2, even more recently found out I have cancer (thyroid papillary carcinoma). Phew.
Fortunately, my cancer is very treatable with nearly 100% success for my age bracket and current level of health. Unfortunately, it is not treatable while growing a fetus. Fortunately, it's normally very slow growing (crossing my fingers that mine continues this trend). It may sound crazy, but I've decided to delay treatment until after I pass Orgo 2 in the spring, take the DAT in June, and hit send on my application. My doc supports me in all of this (so I must not be that crazy) but the tumor is being monitored closely. Just in case. However, this means that at the time I hit send, I will still have cancer...
Anywho, back to my question. If I put it somewhere on my application, I feel like this could go three ways.
1) They'll applaud my resilience/motivation/dedication/etc. (I'm all for earning brownie points, but this really has more to do with some cells that went rogue in my thyroid. Although the, "you have cancer" speech from my pathologist was a little eerie, I am not wasting any energy throwing myself a pity party. Besides, I feel totally fine healthwise.)
2) They'll think, "why would we admit someone who has cancer? This chick has lost it. She needs to get healthy first and then re-apply next year." (While I would totally understand this logic, I'm too old to delay the pursuit of my goals and I'm confident (as is my doctor) that there will be no issue at the time of matriculation.)
3) They won't skip a beat and it won't affect anything. (wishful thinking?)
I could avoid the #2 entirely by just not mentioning it. But that feels dishonest somehow... Truth be told, the surgery and subsequent radiation therapy is much simpler than it sounds and I'll be back on my feet in a matter of weeks. Though I recognize the ADCOMs might not have the same level of understanding/comfort with someone in my situation.
I did have a dream that I didn't tell them and then, during an interview, when the faculty member said, "tell me about yourself," I blurted all of it out. I think my subconscious is telling me something.
Thoughts?
For the record, I don't really want to risk calling my schools of interest to ask them about this before applying. Just in case...
If you haven't read any of my previous posts, my life in a nutshell: URM, graduated undergrad 10 years ago (really weak GPA), have been an active duty Army officer ever since (deployed overseas, led Soldiers, lost Soldiers, I could write a book), have a Master's degree in something I'm not remotely interested in, married and have a munchkin, figured out what I want to be when I grow up last year, have been studying my ass off ever since (4.0 GPA), recently found out I'm pregnant w/#2, even more recently found out I have cancer (thyroid papillary carcinoma). Phew.
Fortunately, my cancer is very treatable with nearly 100% success for my age bracket and current level of health. Unfortunately, it is not treatable while growing a fetus. Fortunately, it's normally very slow growing (crossing my fingers that mine continues this trend). It may sound crazy, but I've decided to delay treatment until after I pass Orgo 2 in the spring, take the DAT in June, and hit send on my application. My doc supports me in all of this (so I must not be that crazy) but the tumor is being monitored closely. Just in case. However, this means that at the time I hit send, I will still have cancer...
Anywho, back to my question. If I put it somewhere on my application, I feel like this could go three ways.
1) They'll applaud my resilience/motivation/dedication/etc. (I'm all for earning brownie points, but this really has more to do with some cells that went rogue in my thyroid. Although the, "you have cancer" speech from my pathologist was a little eerie, I am not wasting any energy throwing myself a pity party. Besides, I feel totally fine healthwise.)
2) They'll think, "why would we admit someone who has cancer? This chick has lost it. She needs to get healthy first and then re-apply next year." (While I would totally understand this logic, I'm too old to delay the pursuit of my goals and I'm confident (as is my doctor) that there will be no issue at the time of matriculation.)
3) They won't skip a beat and it won't affect anything. (wishful thinking?)
I could avoid the #2 entirely by just not mentioning it. But that feels dishonest somehow... Truth be told, the surgery and subsequent radiation therapy is much simpler than it sounds and I'll be back on my feet in a matter of weeks. Though I recognize the ADCOMs might not have the same level of understanding/comfort with someone in my situation.
I did have a dream that I didn't tell them and then, during an interview, when the faculty member said, "tell me about yourself," I blurted all of it out. I think my subconscious is telling me something.
Thoughts?
For the record, I don't really want to risk calling my schools of interest to ask them about this before applying. Just in case...