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Nevermind...
Oh, and stop comparing yourself to other young mothers (you know you are). If their houses are cleaner, their marriages sound happier, their kids seem more well-adjusted, it's an act. They are wallowing in a different kind of despair, called "Why does she get to go to med school? Why can't I be that organized and have that kind of emotional wherewithal? I'm such a loser."
You can DO it.
Do you ever take a hike and just let your mind chill?
You are a parent and you have a lot on your table. If you need to take a break, can you do it once or twice a week in a yoga class? Do something physical. I have to get back to my yoga, myself.
So let me ask Dr. Midlife...Do you think this is a good idea?
First & Foremost: 1. Do as well as I can in Orgo (my only remaining class)
2. Continue to volunteer at my local hospital....
3. This saturday I starting to coach PeeWee soccor....I'm scared b/c i know very little about soccor but everyone tells me not to worry.
4. Become a PTA mom. (I want to be involved in my son's education more)
Avoid PTA at all costs. They are a bunch of bickering mommies on power trips.
We don't just sacrifice our time to become doctors or further our education, our family also sacrifices.
Thank you all for this post! I almost didn't check out SDN tonight as i am starting to think this is all going to be too much. Should i let go of this dream and just focus on being a mom? I figured i'd start to curb the obsession by cutting down on SDN as a start. I have been so motivated for the past year, i registered for Orgo, started, but then had to drop. I am trying to have another baby and didn't want to risk the exposure in lab. I feel a bit defeated. The mommy in me beat out the student this year! Reading this thread made me remember why i want to go to medical school, what i fear becoming and made me feel that i am not alone. I think the OP Is trying to balance so much. It is so hard and the more you do, the more you risk failure....This is my fear. Mostly i fear failing as a mom. I am glad i am not alone.
I have friends who do the whole PTA, FT SAHM thing. I admire their happiness with their lives but i don't think i could do it. I fear coming to a point in my life where all that matters is scrap booking(as DrM mentioned), PTA, luncheons and Gymboree. It is just not me.......How do you find that balance.
In 10 years will i regret not having gone to medical school OR in 10 years will i regret not spending each day with my little angel. I love her more and more each day and can't imagine being away 90 hrs a week...........If only we could figure this all out.
Good luck to the OP, i agree-skip the PTA. As for soccer, could you be the assistant coach so there is less demand placed on you?