Hi everyone,
I found your forum because my boyfriend is a member on it and has been using it while applying to medical schools this year. A little backstory:
-I am not a pre-medical school student; my boyfriend (4 years) is.
-He applied to 12 different schools this cycle. (8 rejected, 2 still waiting on a response, and 2 invited him to do secondary apps but never sent an email or letter about interviews).
-He got a 33 on his MCAT, volunteered in Ghana, Africa for a month summer 2014, works as an ER tech at a hospital here in town, shadowed/volunteered (don't know the exact number on this though), 3.89 GPA (one of his 3 B's was a hs dual-credit course), etc.
I'm wondering if any of you out there would have any advice for how I help him cope with his recent rejections and the possibility that he may not be going to med school next year. I wasn't able to attend any of the interviews he went on, so it's hard for me to figure out if there was a way he could improve on that, as well as not being able to get a feel for the different schools he went to.
What are some volunteer opportunities that medical schools find appealing from applicants? Do med schools focus majorly on how many leadership positions you held (because he wasn't a part of many organizations on campus)? Are there any sites that are helpful for determining what schools he should reapply for that he might receive a better chance at next cycle (should he need to reapply)?
I'm trying to be as supportive as possible when it comes to this and telling him not to take it personally because I know these schools are going off of LOR's, MCAT scores, transcripts, and interviews, but I know that all of this is starting to affect him. It just hurts me to see someone I've been with for 4 years struggling through this, when I know what all he's been through to get to this point. I know that everyone has their struggles before med school, but I just really love him and can see how much this hurts him. The way he comes home every night from the hospital after working and talking about his job, you can see how much he is in his element. It's the same way I talk about music and theatre (I'm a theatre/marketing major by the way), and I know how hard it is when you don't get something you really want.
Anyways, I'm sorry for this long post. I'm just trying to be as supportive as I can without being too overprotective but at the same time not trying to bring many negatives into it. Any and all advice would be appreciated.
I found your forum because my boyfriend is a member on it and has been using it while applying to medical schools this year. A little backstory:
-I am not a pre-medical school student; my boyfriend (4 years) is.
-He applied to 12 different schools this cycle. (8 rejected, 2 still waiting on a response, and 2 invited him to do secondary apps but never sent an email or letter about interviews).
-He got a 33 on his MCAT, volunteered in Ghana, Africa for a month summer 2014, works as an ER tech at a hospital here in town, shadowed/volunteered (don't know the exact number on this though), 3.89 GPA (one of his 3 B's was a hs dual-credit course), etc.
I'm wondering if any of you out there would have any advice for how I help him cope with his recent rejections and the possibility that he may not be going to med school next year. I wasn't able to attend any of the interviews he went on, so it's hard for me to figure out if there was a way he could improve on that, as well as not being able to get a feel for the different schools he went to.
What are some volunteer opportunities that medical schools find appealing from applicants? Do med schools focus majorly on how many leadership positions you held (because he wasn't a part of many organizations on campus)? Are there any sites that are helpful for determining what schools he should reapply for that he might receive a better chance at next cycle (should he need to reapply)?
I'm trying to be as supportive as possible when it comes to this and telling him not to take it personally because I know these schools are going off of LOR's, MCAT scores, transcripts, and interviews, but I know that all of this is starting to affect him. It just hurts me to see someone I've been with for 4 years struggling through this, when I know what all he's been through to get to this point. I know that everyone has their struggles before med school, but I just really love him and can see how much this hurts him. The way he comes home every night from the hospital after working and talking about his job, you can see how much he is in his element. It's the same way I talk about music and theatre (I'm a theatre/marketing major by the way), and I know how hard it is when you don't get something you really want.
Anyways, I'm sorry for this long post. I'm just trying to be as supportive as I can without being too overprotective but at the same time not trying to bring many negatives into it. Any and all advice would be appreciated.