Fair warning. I ranted. It was a super long weekend on ER.
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What kind of BS is this? Treating people with respect is one thing. Treating them as 'equals' is another.
I mean, I'm in animal medicine, so I don't know what kind of hell you people have to deal with. But I am not "equal" to my personal doctor. He went to med school to learn how to treat people. He did a residency. He did god knows what to get where he's at and build the expertise he has. I
do defer (as in, treat with deference) to him for my care. Am I a helpless lackey in the process? Of course not. I weigh his opinion and, if necessary, I go get another educated one. And ultimately I make the decisions. But his opinion carries most of the weight because .... we're not equal. If we were, I wouldn't need him.
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does have to be respectful to me or I'll tell him to go to hell and I'll find a physician that can act like a decent human being. But we're not equals in the process of delivering medicine to me.
Same with my clients. They aren't my equals. They bring their pets to my ER because their pet is sick and they don't have the capability to manage the problem. Thus, we're not
equals. If we were, they wouldn't need me. They deserve respect as human beings, but there's no reason for me to give up my 'title' of doctor just to bring myself down to their level of knowledge. I went to vet school. They didn't.
Screw that article. I hope it was intended as a joke.
Ehh, this rubbed me a little wrong. There's absolutely a power differential in the doctor patient relationship, but it's not one of roles so much as one of information.
Totally disagree - both as a doctor and a patient. There is a HUGE role difference. My role is to take a history, evaluate the patient based on PE, make a diagnostic recommendation, make a therapeutic recommendation, and then implement therapy if in hospital. None of those are roles the client can assume. They sure as heck can't come back into my operatory and perform a surgical procedure. Their role is to give me information and then accept or reject my recommendations. I don't see even a slight overlap.
As a human patient, I feel the same way. My role is to present myself to my physician, be as honest as I can in describing what's going on, and then make a decision (hopefully an informed decision if my doctor has done
his job) about accepting or declining his recommendation. That's my role. His role is ....... everything else.
Why does it rub people the wrong way to simply say "Yeah. The doctor is superior to me in the delivery of health care"???
I mean, hell, that's their JOB. Of COURSE the doctor is superior to the client/patient in that context. I HOPE my doctor is superior to me in the medical process - if he isn't, man, I'm in trouble. It doesn't make them a more valuable human being. Or a better human being. Or anything like that. It doesn't make them superior to the client in any or every
other way. And presumably the client/patient is superior to the doctor in some ways, too, based on their own personal area of excellence/expertise.
Hmph.
I've noticed this ... leveling of the relationship ... in human medicine as a client/patient. My wife busted her knee. We saw a few different doctors for opinions .. and then left one we liked to find another purely for geographical convenience for post-sx rehab ... so we saw, yanno, a bunch. I was struck by how frickin ambivalent each and every one of them was. They'd come in, go over the whole "how did you bust up your knee" thing, talk about the possibilities - do nothing, scope only, fix the acl this way, fix the acl that way, etc. - and then they'd kinda sit back and say "so.............. what do you want to do?" So of course my wife turns to me and says "you're a doctor, what should I do?" To which I have to say "I'm a DVM, not an MD. I don't have the faintest clue what the literature says about human knees. Ask your doctor." Who then says "Well, it's kinda up to you."
Great.
I mean, I appreciate being given at least a little control of the driver's seat. I certainly don't want to be marched around and told what to do with no say in the matter. But at the same time, I sure wish her doctors had been a lot more assertive in saying "this is what's wrong. this is what the latest evidence says gives you the best long-term prognosis considering your goals for use of your knee. this is what I
recommend." Most of them wouldn't even go so far as to RECOMMEND something - they'd just say "these are the things we can do" and leave it at that.
Man up/Woman up/Physician up! Make some recommendations, physicians! Human medicine is failing clients because it's NOT offering them leadership, not because the relationship hasn't been leveled enough so that everyone is "equal partners". You people went to school and did residencies and whatever else to become experts. Don't diminish that because of some academic nonsense about how people want to be treated as 'equals'. They don't. They want to be treated with respect. Completely different.
(Except, of course, for those Dr. Google people who come in telling you what's wrong, what diagnostics they'd like, and what treatment they've already settled on even without the diagnostic information. Those people can go take a hike. I assume you have them in human medicine, too.)
<grump out>