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Here is my situation:
Me and my g/f have been together for 4 months now. I'm moving to a new city to do my masters in about 2-3 months. My g/f is probably the sweetest girl you could meet. She's super nice, always caring, and very helpful in every way. However, I find myself disconnecting from her physically and emotionaly. I know how great she is, but I can't bring myself to put as much effort as I should in the relationship. Maybe it's because I know i'm moving away soon and that i'm not sure we can sustain a long distance relationship? I feel really bad about this and i'm not sure what to do. I've told her that I know I need to put more effort into the relationship, yet I just can't bring myself to do it. She likes me very much and just wants us to be happy. I know i'm hurting her as well.
Any ideas or advice?
Me and my g/f have been together for 4 months now. I'm moving to a new city to do my masters in about 2-3 months. My g/f is probably the sweetest girl you could meet. She's super nice, always caring, and very helpful in every way. However, I find myself disconnecting from her physically and emotionaly. I know how great she is, but I can't bring myself to put as much effort as I should in the relationship. Maybe it's because I know i'm moving away soon and that i'm not sure we can sustain a long distance relationship? I feel really bad about this and i'm not sure what to do. I've told her that I know I need to put more effort into the relationship, yet I just can't bring myself to do it. She likes me very much and just wants us to be happy. I know i'm hurting her as well.
Any ideas or advice?