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I dont understand your reason to get so mad at me. I did not say anything awkward in that post. If you really think that offended your intimate feelings please accept my sincere apologies. BTW.. i dont think i have long hands to cross atlantic ocean and reach romania to get there. I understand that sometimes my posts cross delicate lines. That is the main reason i use to post and delete. If you really want to punish me for that post please order me not to post in this thread for next 5 days. I will obey your order and stay away from this thread. I dont want to lose a beautiful and intelligent SDN friend. it is not worth it!
Nimesh! Can i ask you a very intimate question?
This is just a situation. You have every right to ignore my question. You dont have to answer my question immediately. You take your own time and give me a truthful answer.
Just imagine you are a pretty woman and have posted a picture in this thread like aarti. I am the same NYer. You are in the same exact situation what aarti is going through right now. If you were aarti and i am NYer. what would you do? It is easy for you to play around and support my love like my dead ringer. If you were in aarti shoes..what would you do?
This is not a tricky question. I am not trying to pull your legs or embarrass you in this thread. Just curious. I hope you understand my question.
You dont have to make me happy or anything. Take your own time. even discuss with your son about your decision.
Please, please give me a honest answer. Thanks!
hello New yorker
thanks for asking me the question
well if i give an honest answer , maybe you will be disappointed
It is very difficult for me to put myself in Aarti's shoes, because I am a male person and unfortunately I don't understand women very well
But , I would still try and give you an answer
First of all we have to know if Aarti is single or she has a boyfriend
Reading from her previous posts, if I am correct than I presume she is single right now, though she had some relationships in the past which didn't work out, so she must be a very experienced person and would be very careful to choose her partners
this is her quote from her earlier post which justifies my above statement
PHP:
talkiok, but how did you get that all the indian girls in this thread are that way?
i have travelled to 20 countries, and am adding spain to the list (im leaving next friday) and greece (in march). i dated a white guy for 4 yrs, and then an indian guy for almost a yr. the white guy is a great guy who im still friends with, while the indian guy is an dingus. that doesn't mean all indian guys are dinguses...just cuz 1 was. it seems like you got burned by 1 indian girl, and are now bitter at all of us. and yeah i hang out with indians, but i hang out with tons of other people too. i lived with indians my last 2 yrs in college, and it just a different experience. this is the indian forum so we are OBVIOUSLY going to be ng about indian stuff.
unfortunately she did not have a very good experience dating a indian guy, that does not mean that she will never date an indian guy mind you.
she is also well travelled person as she has travelled to almost 20 countries and as you know is currently in spain having a good time
now let's see , if I was Aarti and this guy new yorker who lives in the other part of the country is constantly bombarding SDN with love letters addressed to me by just looking at my picture, it would make me take some interest
After deep analysis of all your posts, we can conclude that you have a medical background, you look like very good in your field,maybe have a successful practise
Also you have good writing skills and you have a very high libido as almost all your posts have sexual references
but you do lack a little bit of confidence because you have this habit of posting and deleting ,which indicates you are not sure of yourself
But I do admire your guts to post your love letters in a public forum and being strong enough to take all the critisism which inadvertantly follows after such posts
But If I was Aarti, I would like to know more about you other than the skills which I mentioned above
I would Like to meet you in person ,maybe call you all the way to california and go out on a date with you and spend some time before making any decisions
So you have taken the first step in expressing your love by looking at her beautiful picture , but to go further ,I think you should allow Aarti to know more about you and actually meet her in person if you are serious
I tried my best to explain in whatever manner I can
let me conclude by telling you , that if you were a girl, and you were posting love letters to me like what you are doing to Aarti, I would have fallen for you