I don't disagree that it doesn't happen, but the poster seemed to assume that that was the problem facing the OP and other posters without any additional context. Where we might differ is that you saw it as more of a general statement, but I had taken it as a passive-aggressive knock on the OP and likeminded posters. In the end though, I feel that my interpretation of the situation was a fair oneI guess if you want to say you’re being more respectful, fine. I don’t think it’s particularly disrespectful to point out that people blame their poor social skills on introversion because it means they don’t have to work on themselves.