Background information: I have a 3.71 GPA from freshman year (Calculus and I do not get along), so I should feel relatively okay, but this third semester is not quite going the way I hoped. Organic Chemistry is really draining me mentally and emotionally, especially the lab. I just have this overwhelming feeling that I'm failing even though I'm on track to get a few A's at least, a few B's, and hopefully only one or two C's. I feel like it's a crime to get a C though, and I feel like all the pre-med forums and such that I've visited think you have to be a really lazy person to get a C. Is there any chance that classes at Purdue are simply hard? Is it okay if I end up with a 3.1 for this semester? I'm just learning how to study and my dad passed away in April, so I sort of feel like I have pretty solid "excuses" for this semester being a little worse. I'm just worried if I get a 3.0 this semester I'll get into a rut and start getting more B's and C's.
Also what is so wrong about a 3.0 GPA? This isn't highschool. I mean it would be a disappointment to my older sisters who got 3.8's but I have so many engineering friends with 2.5's and such. (Well this is purdue.) Really though, shouldn't it be an ACCOMPLISHMENT to graduate college with a B average? If it was a bell curve that would be a standard deviation above everyone else in your class.
I'm just wondering if school and studying and fear of failing is this daunting for me in my second year of college if I should take a less stressful route and go for nursing instead. I really don't think I want to be a chemist and I don't really want to teach either. Maybe as time goes on, I will be less stressed. I mean I don't feel like I really had enough time to mourn for dad this summer so I think that could have something to do with all of my stress as well.
Anyway, opinions and empathy from fellow sophomores would be appreciated.
Also what is so wrong about a 3.0 GPA? This isn't highschool. I mean it would be a disappointment to my older sisters who got 3.8's but I have so many engineering friends with 2.5's and such. (Well this is purdue.) Really though, shouldn't it be an ACCOMPLISHMENT to graduate college with a B average? If it was a bell curve that would be a standard deviation above everyone else in your class.
I'm just wondering if school and studying and fear of failing is this daunting for me in my second year of college if I should take a less stressful route and go for nursing instead. I really don't think I want to be a chemist and I don't really want to teach either. Maybe as time goes on, I will be less stressed. I mean I don't feel like I really had enough time to mourn for dad this summer so I think that could have something to do with all of my stress as well.
Anyway, opinions and empathy from fellow sophomores would be appreciated.