Is this bad in a LOR?

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Hi SDN. One of my letter writers gracefully offered to let me read his LOR. He is a very well known physician and is also my boss. The letter is overall positive. However, there's one line in there that made me a little uncomfortable: "dotdotdot is well-spoken, but quiet..." and then he continued to describe other positive attributes I had such as professionalism and proficiency in interacting with patients, and that compared to other students he had interacted for the past 10 years, I am in the top 10%.

Is the quiet part too much of a negative at all? Even if he started off by saying that I am well-spoken? He is very busy and I personally think asking him to rephrase it would be out of line. I really want to use this letter since the rest of it is pretty decent, and he is very famous and affiliated with many schools I am applying to. What do you guys think?
 
I think you're just worrying too much about that little comment. If it's an overall very positive letter (which I would assume if he said you were in the top 10%) then there is nothing to worry about. Even so, that comment isn't even really bad- he said you were well spoken after all. I think it's better when a letter writer includes a small weakness/negative just to show that they are being fair in evaluating you and understand that you are not perfect.
 
Hi SDN. One of my letter writers gracefully offered to let me read his LOR. He is a very well known physician and is also my boss. The letter is overall positive. However, there's one line in there that made me a little uncomfortable: "dotdotdot is well-spoken, but quiet..." and then he continued to describe other positive attributes I had such as professionalism and proficiency in interacting with patients, and that compared to other students he had interacted for the past 10 years, I am in the top 10%.

Is the quiet part too much of a negative at all? Even if he started off by saying that I am well-spoken? He is very busy and I personally think asking him to rephrase it would be out of line. I really want to use this letter since the rest of it is pretty decent, and he is very famous and affiliated with many schools I am applying to. What do you guys think?

Is he implying that 'quiet' is a strength or weakness?

I would be more concerned that he ranked you only in the top 10%, since usually every applicant is supposedly in the top 1%.
 
Unless top 10% is the max your school's rating system goes, in which case, never mind.
 
Thanks for the replies. Wow. I always thought being in the top 10% is a pretty good thing. It's not a formulaic ranking sheet that LOR writers check off or anything; it's simply a statement he made in the letter. Is being in the top 10% really not impressive and mediocre at best?
 
Don't listen to BerlinDude ... if you check his/her other posts you know he/she hates American physicians.
I think your LoR is great. Just think how impossible it is that everyone matriculated gets a 1% rating. The overall acceptance rate being 50%, 10% in a physician's eye is really excellent.
Of course, I'm also just a pre-med so take my words with a grain of salt.
 
"Whatever you do, do NOT allow this student entry into medical school"

-Dr. XXXX
Harvard medical school
 
Hi SDN. One of my letter writers gracefully offered to let me read his LOR. He is a very well known physician and is also my boss. The letter is overall positive. However, there's one line in there that made me a little uncomfortable: "dotdotdot is well-spoken, but quiet..." and then he continued to describe other positive attributes I had such as professionalism and proficiency in interacting with patients, and that compared to other students he had interacted for the past 10 years, I am in the top 10%.

Is the quiet part too much of a negative at all? Even if he started off by saying that I am well-spoken? He is very busy and I personally think asking him to rephrase it would be out of line. I really want to use this letter since the rest of it is pretty decent, and he is very famous and affiliated with many schools I am applying to. What do you guys think?

It's a good LOR in my opinion.
 
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