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thirdunity

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I just moved out of my husband's apartment. Filing the papers next week. I left behind 85% of my belongings (including most possessions from my childhood) to leave him.

This was a serious head**** of a relationship that everyone was relieved to see me finally leave.

It's a new life now.

I guess it's true, that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I wasn't going to stick around long enough for this situation to kill me.
 
thirdunity said:
I just moved out of my husband's apartment. Filing the papers next week. I left behind 85% of my belongings (including most possessions from my childhood) to leave him.

This was a serious head**** of a relationship that everyone was relieved to see me finally leave.

It's a new life now.

I guess it's true, that what doesn't kill you makes you stronger. I wasn't going to stick around long enough for this situation to kill me.

I will keep you in my prayers.
😍
 
Why are you leaving your memories with him? Do you think you want them back?

I wish you :luck: and strength. I know this is a hard time for you. I will keep you in my thoughts as I've been following your saga. 😍 Take Care and post away for support!
 
I totally understand the situation - I did the same thing several years ago. While it sucks to lose items from your childhood, they are just objects. Your safety and sanity are more important.

Good luck. 🙂
 
I am sorry about that. But I think that you all need to work it out. What happen to Till Death Do Us Part. You said it yourself, what doesn't kill you make you stronger. In a marriage you have to stick together and what doesn't kill you all makes you stronger. I would seek counselling with your husband and work it out.
 
Braveheart said:
I am sorry about that. But I think that you all need to work it out. What happen to Till Death Do Us Part. You said it yourself, what doesn't kill you make you stronger. In a marriage you have to stick together and what doesn't kill you all makes you stronger. I would seek counselling with your husband and work it out.
This guy was abusive Braveheart.

Thirdunity tried to make the change. He didn't want to.
 
I just moved out of my husband's apartment. Filing the papers next week. I left behind 85% of my belongings (including most possessions from my childhood) to leave him.

It is your property. Go back to pick it up. Talk you your local police department, depending on the state, they might be obliged to go with you to keep your husband in check (you might have to file for a protective order first). If they don't, take along your cousins 'Vinnie' and 'Luca'.
 
sunnyjohn said:
This guy was abusive Braveheart.
Thirdunity tried to make the change. He didn't want to.

Thanks sunnyjohn, I am sorry thirdunit, U made the right decision. U will find someone better. good luck
 
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