I worked for a dentist for a while who was sleeping with his secretary, got caught with his pants down and then went through a divorce to his second wife. He had three kids by two different women and then married the secretary who had two kids. (She was definitely a gold digger.) Before his divorce he was already on the verge of financial disaster due to his second wife. She took him to the cleaners in court and the secretary wife was living the high life on his credit. . . so a word of advice, don't just watch out who you marry, watch out who you sleep with!!! He was a stellar dentist who did amazing work, but his private life was a disaster. All the ex-wives and children and new toy wife cost him a lot of money and a lot of patients left his practice too.