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I'm looking for some advice on LDRs...
I have been dating someone for about 6 months and we totally click. We have only recently became exclusive (past 1-2 months). Things are going great, but he starts his residency this summer and will be relocating 8 hours away. Granted, his residency is only 1 year, but I am wondering if we can make this work, if others have gone through similiar LDR situations and can offer any advice.
A few facts:
We haven't discussed being exclusive while he is away yet, but I'm trying to figure out if it's even a feasible option.
I am not a fan of LDRs and would never consider it if I didn't have such strong feelings for him.
We have had some trust issues in the past that we are trying to work through. Right now, things are really great, but deep down I still do not trust him 100% and not sure I want to consider an LDR with him.
He has stated that he loves me and would like to "try to make things work". Again, we haven't had "The Talk" about this yet, but it is coming soon. I'd like to gather some info on how these situations have worked out for others and what I should consider here.
Appreciate any advice...thanks!
I have been dating someone for about 6 months and we totally click. We have only recently became exclusive (past 1-2 months). Things are going great, but he starts his residency this summer and will be relocating 8 hours away. Granted, his residency is only 1 year, but I am wondering if we can make this work, if others have gone through similiar LDR situations and can offer any advice.
A few facts:
We haven't discussed being exclusive while he is away yet, but I'm trying to figure out if it's even a feasible option.
I am not a fan of LDRs and would never consider it if I didn't have such strong feelings for him.
We have had some trust issues in the past that we are trying to work through. Right now, things are really great, but deep down I still do not trust him 100% and not sure I want to consider an LDR with him.
He has stated that he loves me and would like to "try to make things work". Again, we haven't had "The Talk" about this yet, but it is coming soon. I'd like to gather some info on how these situations have worked out for others and what I should consider here.
Appreciate any advice...thanks!