currently doing long distance right now as an M1. we were only together for a little over 2 months when i had to move, but we wanted to make it work. he tells me now that he didn't think he was going to see me again, but man have i proved him wrong. no, it isn't that he had doubts about us, he just thought it was too good to be true. during the fall we saw each other every few weeks or so. the spring has been a little busier and harder, but we are making it work. we are lucky because he got a teaching job next year down here and will be moving out. some things that i think are important
-let him/her know that your time schedule will not be similar to that seen in undergrad. i explained to him how our schedule works and what other commitments i would have
-when you do talk to him/her on the phone/in person, remember to talk about things other than medicine (even if they are interested), they will get bored fast
-be willing to make sacrifices; we spent a lot of money to see each other and knew that 20 minutes less studying/sleeping in order to talk on the phone would help us
-being hundreds (or thousands of miles away) doesn't give you an excuse to think only about yourself, if you want to make it work, you will still think about the "us"
-be willing to work fights out before going to bed
-don't get angry if he/she doesn't pick up - remember, he/she has a life too
-if you snap at your SO because you are stressed about school, apologize and tell them that it is school and try not to do it again
thats all i can really think of. don't let med school delay your life. if you think this could be the one, do it, make it work, trust me, it is worth it