I think the situation calls for butt kissing and regardless of whether the person likes you, knows you, or what have you...you are still in a compromising position. I asked people I know and have taken for multiple classes and they have gotten to know me very well but still inspite of all that I still felt like sucking up was expected which is why i wrote this post. This post isn't about me or if i had to suck up or what have you because i can't do it either the point is " if you know me very extermely well why make me go through that?" It more what you all think it's theoretically about..... My conclusion it's just that type of situation you have no control over what will happen.... more thoughts......