1. regarding the research: i came up with the topic on my own, wrote the proposal, got departmental approval, took it to the IRB and presented it myself (with the PD standing next to me/to validate a lil ole med student!), an d am doing EVERYTHING MYSELF to get it underway. the residents on the project and the other attendings don't care enuf about it to make it happen. but i'm so mad and burned by my home hospital, that i'd rather match/get a good LOR than stay back for a project no one else in the dept cares to see happen. plus, i'll be in my home hospital for the rest of the year = ample time for me to go during my nonstressful 4th yr and complete it.
2. Having a dinky research project that wouldn't even be finished in time for interview season is not gonna push me over the edge in terms of competitiveness.
Okay, so you're pretty much the one who spearheaded this project ... which means, if you want to, you can put it on hold until after your sub-I's (or at least that's the impression I get), which is fine. Do the sub-I's first, get the LOR's, you can return to your project later.
4. by the way, i'm interested in how you were able to call up programs and CONVINCE THEM they should give you an interview. .... how exactly did you do it, if you don't mind me asking. what did you say? i feel i may need this advice as i apply and don't get my interviews...
Basically, one thing that I learned about the ERAS system is that it although overall it's a good system, it does have some cracks in it. Believe it or not, but there were a significant number of programs that did not get my application in whole. Some got my LOR but no test scores, some got test scores but no essay, some got the essay but no application, etc. I would basically e-mail the program director (you can get their e-mail address from FREIDA) and say, "Hi, I am so-and-so. I'm really keen on going to your program. I just wanted to confirm that my application reached you in full." Usually, they'll forward the e-mail to their secretary who then sends you an e-mail saying yes, they did or no, they did not receive your application in full. For those programs where the application has not been received fully through the ERAS system for whatever reason, I would fax them hard copies of my resume, LOR, test scores, essay, etc with a cover letter telling them I'd love to visit their department.
(This step is very important, because there were times that the program directors would actually apologize to me for not having interviewed me sooner and they couldn't understand why they didn't have all of my application materials.)
For those programs that did receive the application in full (and haven't responded yet either yay or nay to an interview), I would call up the program secretary and say, "Hi, I am so and so. I am really keen on visiting your department. I've heard it's a great program. I was wondering if I could come for an interview." Usually they would say no, that they were still wading through the applications and that I would be notified in due course. But sometimes they would say, "we have an opening on so and so date, would you like to come then." The key is to be nice and pleasant to the program secretary, cuz even if she says no, she's the one responsible for scheduling interviews, so she can slot you in if there's an opening, AND she can draw the PD's attention to your application.
For those programs that would say no to an interview date over the phone, after a week or so, I would e-mail the program director and re-iterate my request (confidently and pleasantly).
That's how I secured half of my interviews.
And regarding LOR's. I never waive my right to see them. These are documents that are going to have a significant impact on my career. And thus, I want to know what is in them. When I applied, I never waived this right. I always knew what was being said, and thus I could pick and choose from all my letters and decide which one went where and which one went nowhere. I wish I had done this when I was applying to medical school cuz I had a bitch of a time trying to get into med school. So this one time, I decided to ask the premed office to mail my LOR's to a fake program with my home address ... I got the LOR's at my home ... I read them ... I could not believe how incredibly mediocre, lukewarm, and just plain crap some of them were.
And regarding LOR's that have been waived vs. those that haven't, I don't think my LOR's were viewed any less favorably because I did not veto my choice to see them.
I hope this helps.