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as the days go by i am losing all hope in getting an interview at maryland, anyone else feel the same?
nervouspremed said:Yea, I agree with you guys, I think it's over. This rejection letter gonna hurt a lot.
KiKat37 said:Hey starfruit,
I know you are right. All the secretaries can't be bad. Maybe it's just the one I talked to. And, maybe I just happen to talk to the same nasty person each time. My luck! I probably over-reacted, but God knows she pushed me. I can easily get sad or frustrated or impatient, but I very very rarely get angry.
Actually, I don't even think that it's the nasty secretary who pissed me off. I'm just drained by this process. It just really hurts that UMD won't even interview me. I mean, I'm a good applicant... Not a "top" applicant but, hey, Maryland is a good school - not a "top" school. And, I went to UMD and for four years, each semester, Dr. Foxwell came to campus and talked about the SOM. I went to his talk each time (yes, I listened to the same speech 8 times, semester after semester!) And, each time, I patiently waited until the end of the speech to get a chance to talk to him. Each time, I told him how much I liked the school and asked what I should do to become a better candidate. I listened to everything he said and did my best to follow his advice... UMD has just been my dream since I was a freshman... Yet, despite everything I did, they won't even give me a chance to interview...
But, anyway. Enough
KiKat37 said:I went to UMD and for four years, each semester, Dr. Foxwell came to campus and talked about the SOM. I went to his talk each time (yes, I listened to the same speech 8 times, semester after semester!) And, each time, I patiently waited until the end of the speech to get a chance to talk to him. Each time, I told him how much I liked the school and asked what I should do to become a better candidate. I listened to everything he said and did my best to follow his advice... UMD has just been my dream since I was a freshman...
Friendly said:I too feel that the University of Maryland is entirely too arbitrary in the way they admit people. I know of several out-of-state applicants with very, very mediocre credentials who got in because they were "interesting." Initially, I would have loved to have gone there myself and I was surprised that I did not even get an interview. After a while, I actually forgot that I had applied there and UMD was originally my top choice!
That said, many people on these boards seem to have lost sight of the fact that winning an interview is in fact a privilege - not a mandate. We are asking medical schools to honor our request for admission and we must accept their final response whatever that is- and move on. If the school believes I am not right for their curriculum then I do not want to be at that school because we are not a reciprocal match. Who here wants to be in a relationship that is one-sided? There will be much greater challenges in medical school and residency than merely gaining admission. Keeping this in perspective has really helped me. ..just my two cents worth.
starfruit said:Have you laid it out like this in a letter to Dr. Foxwell? Sometimes being blunt and heartfelt, and making it personal, can change minds in the Admissions Office. I know I was moved by your story. Just a thought.
In any case, I'm happy to see you've had some interest from other schools!