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That explains it all.
Seriously though, if you back off too much, at some point you will be enabling her bad behavior. Not every issue needs to be pushed, but not pushing any issues will contribute to her special snowflake status.
My husband once had a teenage employee claim he was harassing her after he told her she needed to button her top shirt button. She had been unbuttoning to show cleavage in an effort to get tips. She fessed up to the whole thing being payback, but now he is paranoid about harassment claims. He later had an employee coming in to work in a store he managed wearing skin tight and nearly see thru leggings sans underwear. Apparently you could see everything. This store had no dress code, people who worked there were always showing each other their private piercings and discussing sex and stuff. No one was a prude. It was in a rough area of town with some sketchy people and the employees sometimes worked alone. Still, he was too chicken**** to say anything. He made the owners wife talk to her when she came to town like 10 days later. It irritated me because I felt like his responsibility was to manage and protect his employees, not wait 10 days for someone else to deal. Meanwhile all the registered sex offenders were ogling this girl. My point is, some things you can't let go out of a sense of fear. If you are not willing to manage your employees, it then becomes a problem with your behavior, not just theirs. My perspective, anyway.
I'm barely even on this site that much. I didn't feel the need to reply to every little post because I was busy. And for you to compare what the man said to talking about a specific type of cat just goes to show that you do not get it. Agree to disagree, but you can't tell someone that they shouldn't feel some type of way just because you don't get it.