I am so, utterly confused right now. I keep hearing this word Malignant. I do not think it means what you think it means.
I could whine about my experience as an intern but let me put it this way; Regularly worked 80, regularly did 30 hours in a row, once went 43 days without a calendar day off (yay for the 24h period!). Internal Medicine Wards at the county hospital was the easiest rotation of the year. While we were one of the heavier call programs out there, we were by far not the only one. More programs had similar schedules to us than different.
If I hadn't just spent so much money I can no longer afford to put an offer on the condo I was planning on buying (literally), I would bet that you aren't working that much, in relative terms to what people did even 5 years ago, or in absolute terms for a young professional.
You should expect minimum 50 hour weeks, 1 day a week of weekday shortcall, and 2-4 weekend days of long call. It's also better than most have had it over the years. But, THIS IS NOT A LOT OF WORK. Not in engineering, not in law, not in early career scientist. Not in dedicated teacher. In no demanding professional field is this a lot of work. People rely on you as an expert, a support, and a lifesaver. 50 hours a week, 60 on rough weeks is simply not that big of a deal, especially as its just for a few years. You would be expected to do that in literally any demanding professional field.
As for the 'bad neighborhood', I literally fell out of my chair laughing. In the US there are a couple of easy ways to avoid murder: 1) Don't be in a gang 2) Don't live with someone in a gang 3) Don't use drugs 4) Don't sleep around or be with someone who sleeps around. Satisfy those criteria and your risk of murder is now less than your chance of winning the lottery.
As for overall violent crime and robbery, our crime rates are so much lower than 'civilized' Europe it's not even funny.
I'm sorry to be an a-hole but you're literally not responding to attempts at cognitive reframing, at all.