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This is really a personal problem, and I wanted input here. If this is not an appropriate topic for this forum, then moderators, feel free to remove it. I wasn't sure if it was ok to post or not, but even though it is a personal experience, maybe others have similar excperience or can offer some advice.
The deal:
My father had a kidney transplant last summer, almost exactly 1 year ago. He has 3 doctors: 1)his family practice doc, 2) his urologist, and 3) the transplant doc. He has had prescriptions from all three docs, and they rarely communicate. There have been too many incidents to count over the past year where dangerous things have happened that NO ONE has seemed to be accountable for.... they all just point and blame each other.
#1- The day he came home from the hospital, he was given a notebook describing his medications. He's on about 20 different meds. THere was a sticker that showed what each pill looked like, a description of the med, what it was for, the proper dosaage (he was on a scaled down program for many of them, and that made it all more confusing), and contraindications. Also a schedule for when to take the meds. The nurse that organized the packet was very nice and explained everything. When we got back from the pharmacy, the drugs that were on the prescriptions (the drugs we recieved) were not the same as the drugs in the notebook. Some were just generics, so that was not too hard to figgure out, some were different dosages, though, and the total dosage on the prescription bottle did not match the notebook. For example, the doc put in the notebook to take 5mg of pill A, three times per day, but the script we got was 2.5 mg pills that said take 2x per day. Many of the drugs that he was scheduled to take at the same time had conflicting info: i.e., pill A and pill B, (both to be taken at 8AM) where pill A would say "DO NOT TAKE ON EMPTY STOMACH" and pill B would say "DO NOT EAT 2 HOURS BEFORE TAKING." !!! Needless to say, this was all very confusing and took about a week of making phone calls to different docs to work out. As the dosing schedules have changes as he has recovered, this situation comes up again and again and again. THe docs DO NOT COMMUNICATE with each other.
#2- The transplant doc just moved out of town. THe meds that were prescribed by this doc included the anti-rejection meds. Pretty important stuff that would be LIFE-THREATENING if doses were missed. THe urologist (hateful woman!) refuses to prescribe these. She says to get the family practice doc to do it. The family practice doc was like, "WHAT?! I don't prescribe transplant meds! You have to get a specialist to do that!!" THese docs did not pick up the phone and call each other, OH NO. THey made my poor dad drive back and forth to each office, make appts., etc. He still has no answer as to who will prescribe his anti-rejections meds, and his doses are running out. All I have to say is WTF!!??? THis is the same uroligist that never called us back after we had an emergency on a weekend. My mother really chewed her a new one on Monday.
#3- One doc at the ER (where we had to go because the hateful urologist never called us back) requested a SPINAL TAP at one point after the transplant. THe transplant doc JUST HAPPENED TO DROP BY RIGHT BEORE IT WAS ADMINISTERED.... He was at the hospital checking on a patient. He cancelled it immediately... saying that a spinal tap for my dad at that point (where he was taking huge doses of immune-supressing drugs) could have been VERY dangerous.
I guess my main question here is this:
I know what to do when I get ****** around by a business. I know my rights as a consumer. I have used the BBB to resolve a complaint or two over the years. BUT HEALTHCARE? I have no idea where to turn for anwers when the people we trust (Doctors) are of NO HELP WHATSOEVER. My feeling is that this type of situation is not only extremelly stressful for someone who has just experienced life-changing surgury, but also DANGEROUS. I think my mother is in the process of contacting the AMA because that is the only thing she knows to do at this point, but is there anywhere else I can get information about resolving this kind of issue?
I don't think expecting doctors to communicate with each other is asking too much. Not ONCE during this transplant situation, when these three docs should have been working together to ensure the best patient care, NOT ONCE did any of them pick up a phone and call one of the others. I mean, we are talking about HUMAN LIFE here. I'm so frustrated I could cry.
I also wonder about how many people who are maybe poorer/less educated/more timid than my family have had issues like this that led them to DIE because of it??? I mean, some people that don't have much education, or maybe elderly people that don't have close family to help them would probably have no idea what to do. We have no idea what to do, and we are pretty well educated!
Is there a patient advocate organization? Should we try to find one practice that has a transplant specialist/uroligist/family practice under one roof? (fat chance) We are in the process of looking fo other doctors, but they are so hard to find and from my experience, docs around here rarely take new patients. I am so pissed at the medical profession right now. 😡
By the way, we have been to two different pharmacies, and the pharmacists at both have not really stepped up to help/offer advice. THey just say we need to talk to the doctors. Neither of them was willing to call on our behalf. One was a family run place (actually we still get one prescription here because it is the only place in town that stocks this one drug), and the other was CVS.
Advice? Comments? Anyone else have a similar situation?
The deal:
My father had a kidney transplant last summer, almost exactly 1 year ago. He has 3 doctors: 1)his family practice doc, 2) his urologist, and 3) the transplant doc. He has had prescriptions from all three docs, and they rarely communicate. There have been too many incidents to count over the past year where dangerous things have happened that NO ONE has seemed to be accountable for.... they all just point and blame each other.
#1- The day he came home from the hospital, he was given a notebook describing his medications. He's on about 20 different meds. THere was a sticker that showed what each pill looked like, a description of the med, what it was for, the proper dosaage (he was on a scaled down program for many of them, and that made it all more confusing), and contraindications. Also a schedule for when to take the meds. The nurse that organized the packet was very nice and explained everything. When we got back from the pharmacy, the drugs that were on the prescriptions (the drugs we recieved) were not the same as the drugs in the notebook. Some were just generics, so that was not too hard to figgure out, some were different dosages, though, and the total dosage on the prescription bottle did not match the notebook. For example, the doc put in the notebook to take 5mg of pill A, three times per day, but the script we got was 2.5 mg pills that said take 2x per day. Many of the drugs that he was scheduled to take at the same time had conflicting info: i.e., pill A and pill B, (both to be taken at 8AM) where pill A would say "DO NOT TAKE ON EMPTY STOMACH" and pill B would say "DO NOT EAT 2 HOURS BEFORE TAKING." !!! Needless to say, this was all very confusing and took about a week of making phone calls to different docs to work out. As the dosing schedules have changes as he has recovered, this situation comes up again and again and again. THe docs DO NOT COMMUNICATE with each other.
#2- The transplant doc just moved out of town. THe meds that were prescribed by this doc included the anti-rejection meds. Pretty important stuff that would be LIFE-THREATENING if doses were missed. THe urologist (hateful woman!) refuses to prescribe these. She says to get the family practice doc to do it. The family practice doc was like, "WHAT?! I don't prescribe transplant meds! You have to get a specialist to do that!!" THese docs did not pick up the phone and call each other, OH NO. THey made my poor dad drive back and forth to each office, make appts., etc. He still has no answer as to who will prescribe his anti-rejections meds, and his doses are running out. All I have to say is WTF!!??? THis is the same uroligist that never called us back after we had an emergency on a weekend. My mother really chewed her a new one on Monday.
#3- One doc at the ER (where we had to go because the hateful urologist never called us back) requested a SPINAL TAP at one point after the transplant. THe transplant doc JUST HAPPENED TO DROP BY RIGHT BEORE IT WAS ADMINISTERED.... He was at the hospital checking on a patient. He cancelled it immediately... saying that a spinal tap for my dad at that point (where he was taking huge doses of immune-supressing drugs) could have been VERY dangerous.
I guess my main question here is this:
I know what to do when I get ****** around by a business. I know my rights as a consumer. I have used the BBB to resolve a complaint or two over the years. BUT HEALTHCARE? I have no idea where to turn for anwers when the people we trust (Doctors) are of NO HELP WHATSOEVER. My feeling is that this type of situation is not only extremelly stressful for someone who has just experienced life-changing surgury, but also DANGEROUS. I think my mother is in the process of contacting the AMA because that is the only thing she knows to do at this point, but is there anywhere else I can get information about resolving this kind of issue?
I don't think expecting doctors to communicate with each other is asking too much. Not ONCE during this transplant situation, when these three docs should have been working together to ensure the best patient care, NOT ONCE did any of them pick up a phone and call one of the others. I mean, we are talking about HUMAN LIFE here. I'm so frustrated I could cry.
I also wonder about how many people who are maybe poorer/less educated/more timid than my family have had issues like this that led them to DIE because of it??? I mean, some people that don't have much education, or maybe elderly people that don't have close family to help them would probably have no idea what to do. We have no idea what to do, and we are pretty well educated!
Is there a patient advocate organization? Should we try to find one practice that has a transplant specialist/uroligist/family practice under one roof? (fat chance) We are in the process of looking fo other doctors, but they are so hard to find and from my experience, docs around here rarely take new patients. I am so pissed at the medical profession right now. 😡
By the way, we have been to two different pharmacies, and the pharmacists at both have not really stepped up to help/offer advice. THey just say we need to talk to the doctors. Neither of them was willing to call on our behalf. One was a family run place (actually we still get one prescription here because it is the only place in town that stocks this one drug), and the other was CVS.
Advice? Comments? Anyone else have a similar situation?

yes, all in perspective 20 is not that bad.