I am not homosexual myself but I still feel that I have the right to admit that I am utterly frustrated and disheartened with the majority of America's stance on homosexuality. These are real people; they are just like everyone else except that they are sexually attracted to the same sex instead. Do you think they act on this attraction because they simply wanted to? No.
So gay people have such uncontrollable sexual desires that they
have to act on them? Like, I don't know ... animals?
I'm queer-friendly myself, so take this as a polite criticism -- I don't understand why so many pro-gay-rights folks refuse to see the distinction between sexual orientation and sexual behavior. The former may or may not be biological (no one really knows for sure), but the latter is
definitely governed by human choice. There's no reason why a gay person couldn't attend Loma Linda and abstain from sex, same way a straight person could exercise the self-control required to keep their pants on for four years. No discrimination here.
You do our "side" no favors with your hysterical knee-jerk response. Worse, you add fuel to the already popular misconception that gay people are uncontrollable sex monsters who simply cannot restrain themselves when they see an attractive person ("OOH! PRETTY BOY! ME MUST HAVE!").
Who in their right mind would want to subject themselves to that kind of harsh and frustrating lifestyle? Not many I would presume. Some say "Well they CHOOSE to ACT on these feelings which is a choice that they make for themselves and therefore it's fine to condemn that." That's cool, condemn what you want. However, tell me why you personally "CHOSE" to initiate relations with the opposite sex? Tell me why you chose to see a girl walk down the street and say "Daaaamn!" I highly doubt you can tell me why. That is because it is NATURAL. It happens naturally; it's just that way and there really isn't much you can do about it.
So the leap from seeing an attractive person-->having sex with them is so "natural" and un-helpable that you can't stop it?
What if you're married?
In an otherwise committed relationship?
Abstinent or celibate, by choice?
What if the attractive person is a minor?
And more importantly, why don't we see people having sex on the streets all the time? Surely no one can wait to get home, it being so natural and urgent that we bone anyone we find attractive ...
Try to consciously look at the same sex for one day and try to find something truly sexually attractive about them, thus totally flip-flopping what you're naturally attracted to and "choosing" to go the other way. Hard? Yes. Could one do it? Sure, but why would the majority of homosexuals do this on purpose?
The point you're missing is that Loma Linda isn't telling people to turn themselves straight, but to abstain from
all unmarried sex. If not being allowed to have sex is discrimination, then they're discriminating against unmarried straight people, too. This will be one gigantic class-action suit, when someone wakes up to the injustice of it all.
Anyways, all I am saying is that schools like Loma Linda truly disgust me. How dare they condemn something that people cannot help? How dare they say to these people that if we find out you've been having homosexual relations that disciplinary action will be involved? Sure, it's a private school and can do what they want. That isn't the point; it is just sad that we are still living in such an intolerant world today.
See above.
This country is supposedly based on equality and equal rights for all, correct? So why aren't homosexuals receiving this? Yes, it apparently all falls back on religious beliefs. But I am begging you to put yourself in these homosexual's shoes for a moment and truly take the time to look at these individuals as human beings; deserving the same rights you and I have and everything above.
And here I'll agree -- gay folks deserve every right that straight people have, including marriage, partner benefits & inheritance, and adoption.
Throw statistics at me, religious excerpts from the bible, or whatever else you have in stock. But trust me: knowing that I accept and cherish everyone regardless of their lifestyle makes me feel stronger, more humble, and fulfilled.
I don't understand the whole "respecting different lifestyles" thing, I really don't, because it not only sounds stupid on the surface (admit it! it does!), but it's so easy to attack. Cultural relativism be damned, there are
many lifestyles out there that should not only be disrespected, they should be illegal -- any involving, for instance, pederasty, or human or animal sacrifice, just for starters. It's nice that you acknowledge (implicitly at least) that there's something of a choice involved in acting on homosexual urges, but it's a stupid term, it really is.