I know similar threads have been posted, but I haven't found any addressing romantic interest within the same department. So...
Female MS3 interested in male intern in my specialty of interest. I just wanted to weigh in before I lead him on and then decide it's not worth the risk. So, I would love to match to the program here. I've never been his med student, but the residents here will have strong input on my residency application.
Pro: He seems awesome! (And, of course, he's ridiculously attractive.)
Con: Obviously the issue of professionalism. I know I'll be judged by the entire department if anything comes out of this. I feel I am currently in good standing in the department, have every intention of earning respect via merit, and I would love to match here. If it's a good relationship, I feel like the department will think it's sweet. But of course if it's not, anytime between now and next February (when rank lists are due), it could certainly work in my disfavor. And if I match here, he'll be a senior when I'm an intern. (Although, I think the latter isn't quite as crucial an issue.)
Of note: my sub-I is in July, and after that no one in the department will be grading me on a clinical rotation, although I am hoping to do an elective with one faculty member in October. I'm about ready to ask for LORs, so hopefully those will be in prior.
Thoughts?
Female MS3 interested in male intern in my specialty of interest. I just wanted to weigh in before I lead him on and then decide it's not worth the risk. So, I would love to match to the program here. I've never been his med student, but the residents here will have strong input on my residency application.
Pro: He seems awesome! (And, of course, he's ridiculously attractive.)
Con: Obviously the issue of professionalism. I know I'll be judged by the entire department if anything comes out of this. I feel I am currently in good standing in the department, have every intention of earning respect via merit, and I would love to match here. If it's a good relationship, I feel like the department will think it's sweet. But of course if it's not, anytime between now and next February (when rank lists are due), it could certainly work in my disfavor. And if I match here, he'll be a senior when I'm an intern. (Although, I think the latter isn't quite as crucial an issue.)
Of note: my sub-I is in July, and after that no one in the department will be grading me on a clinical rotation, although I am hoping to do an elective with one faculty member in October. I'm about ready to ask for LORs, so hopefully those will be in prior.
Thoughts?
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