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So... it took me roughly 4 years to prepare for application to medical school & gain acceptance to a fine US MD school. Not a simple task for anyone, let alone a 30+ year old mother, as I'm sure many of my family friendly fellow non-trads can attest to.
During this process, one of the things that just drove me bonkers was when someone would ask about what I was up to and I would tell them I am planning on applying to medical school in a few years and in attempt to achieve that goal I have been doing X, Y, & Z. Then the person would almost always say something like "Have you ever considered becoming a PA? It doesn't take as long and the lifestyle is so much better. Blah, Blah, & Blah." in that little pity voice like they think you are totally stupid and are going to fail at getting into medical school.
ME: (thinking) *heavy sarcasm* Oh thank you so much person I barely know for your sage advice. No, I didn't know what a PA was, I must have forgotten after that last helpful person told me I should go to PA school a week ago. How could I be so stupid, here I am doing all this hard work, following my dreams garbage. You are so right, I should just give up on becoming a doctor because you obviously know what is best for me. *end sarcasm*
Okay fast forward to now. It's my last summer before the real storm. I'm mostly max relaxing with my family and getting my ducks in a row for when I start school this August. People ask me what I am up to and I say I'm not doing too much right at this moment because I'm starting medical school this fall and I don't want to be all stressed out, & la, la, la.
Then this is what they say: (no joke, it happened again today for like the 20th time) "Oh that is so nice. You must have worked so hard. You are gonna be a wonderful nurse."
GAAAHHHHH! I SAID M-E-D-I-C-A-L SCHOOL. WHHHYYYYY!
Why can't I just get a tiny drop of respect, is that too much ask. I'm about to start medical school and for the next 8+ years I'm gonna have to claw my way up from the bottom of the barrel. I know, I'm starting at ground zero, I'm an absolute nobody in the field of medicine, but gosh darn it if I TOLD YOU ONCE, I TOLD YOU A THOUSAND TIMES, I'm gonna be a doctor. MD, not a PA & not a nurse. Okay, now please leave me alone so I can cry out my frustration alone in a cave of pre-med shame. Peace.
***Disclaimer: I hope it was obvious by the title of the thread that I wrote this in attempt to be funny, I may not be funny, I donno. Honestly, I harbor no disrespect for the professions of PA & Nursing but I am fully aware that by posting this I might anger some sensitive souls (not unlike myself). Also, a little preemptive strike at the inevitable person who will try to call me out for humble bragging: HA-HA look at you Mother Teresa, don't you know this is SDN, the humble brag was invented and perfected here on these forums, deal. 🙂
During this process, one of the things that just drove me bonkers was when someone would ask about what I was up to and I would tell them I am planning on applying to medical school in a few years and in attempt to achieve that goal I have been doing X, Y, & Z. Then the person would almost always say something like "Have you ever considered becoming a PA? It doesn't take as long and the lifestyle is so much better. Blah, Blah, & Blah." in that little pity voice like they think you are totally stupid and are going to fail at getting into medical school.
ME: (thinking) *heavy sarcasm* Oh thank you so much person I barely know for your sage advice. No, I didn't know what a PA was, I must have forgotten after that last helpful person told me I should go to PA school a week ago. How could I be so stupid, here I am doing all this hard work, following my dreams garbage. You are so right, I should just give up on becoming a doctor because you obviously know what is best for me. *end sarcasm*
Okay fast forward to now. It's my last summer before the real storm. I'm mostly max relaxing with my family and getting my ducks in a row for when I start school this August. People ask me what I am up to and I say I'm not doing too much right at this moment because I'm starting medical school this fall and I don't want to be all stressed out, & la, la, la.
Then this is what they say: (no joke, it happened again today for like the 20th time) "Oh that is so nice. You must have worked so hard. You are gonna be a wonderful nurse."
GAAAHHHHH! I SAID M-E-D-I-C-A-L SCHOOL. WHHHYYYYY!
Why can't I just get a tiny drop of respect, is that too much ask. I'm about to start medical school and for the next 8+ years I'm gonna have to claw my way up from the bottom of the barrel. I know, I'm starting at ground zero, I'm an absolute nobody in the field of medicine, but gosh darn it if I TOLD YOU ONCE, I TOLD YOU A THOUSAND TIMES, I'm gonna be a doctor. MD, not a PA & not a nurse. Okay, now please leave me alone so I can cry out my frustration alone in a cave of pre-med shame. Peace.
***Disclaimer: I hope it was obvious by the title of the thread that I wrote this in attempt to be funny, I may not be funny, I donno. Honestly, I harbor no disrespect for the professions of PA & Nursing but I am fully aware that by posting this I might anger some sensitive souls (not unlike myself). Also, a little preemptive strike at the inevitable person who will try to call me out for humble bragging: HA-HA look at you Mother Teresa, don't you know this is SDN, the humble brag was invented and perfected here on these forums, deal. 🙂
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