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i dated my ex for about 2 years, at first everything was perfect, then i found out she was cheating on me, and always beg for me back or lie to hide or stuff etc... finally i found out she is a sociopath, read this site and u can relate what i been thru and what a sociopath is
http://www.mcafee.cc/Bin/sb.html
My problem is even as an ex, i feel bad for her, its like i am the only one who understands her inside out, all the other guys she had in her life used her for a$$ or some other motive, i am a sincerely huge hearted guy, i know with her disease she can be dangerous to me as i found out she been doing things as making guys i never met hate me so i wont meet them or i wont ever be introduced to them, like she has this charm and innocence to her that she is very convincing, the problem is, after i got fed up trying to help her and she put my life more in anxiety, i find out that she still doing what she was, like this girl comes from a Very conservative upscale family and if her dad even found out she dated one guy he prob go nuts, so i think she does her deviant acts and is scared i will tell her cousin who is my friend and it will get to her dad, the prob is i dont care about the situation and wont tell anyone, the other guys she cheated on tryed to screw her over with sending the love emails to her family etc... but she got away with it by framing the confession letters on her own female cuzzin and best friend of 14 years, she also framed all her best friends to get her butt from being caught or her premiscuioisity from being exposed, the problem is i am the only person that knows her inside out, alll her other bfs just lasted a few months and trashed her, its like i want to help her, but heck i am finding out that she is making people behind my back hate me god knows how so i wont be introduced to them so i wont know she Fu-ked with them. How do i get myself out of this web, she always cries when i tell her to stop or i will bust her out and promises she will, but she still destroys my impeccable reputation by making **** up to every bf she goes out with so i wont meet them, and i mean she dates 3-4 guys at a time, its like part of her disease, and she takes risks and meets guys online and does sexual stuff with them etc... not thinking of her health. So i have random people hating me which i dont know, and i didnt do a single bad thing to this girl when we were together, i was the best bf ever, she would admit that she hates hurting me and she loves me and bla bla and everytime i catch her or caught her in her act she would ask for one more chance or cry and say i am the only one she has and without me she is lost or bla bla. I made it clear to her that i dont want her as a gf after i found out and saw and heard first hand from a few of the guys she dated how she made them hate me and they believed her cause she was their gf and sounded believable etc... so i got the local guys that go to my school that i found out she was associated with clearedup and we found out she a sociopath, well they all called her and call her a Wh*re but i consider her a sociopath cause she fits every single symptom in the website i listed. Anyone ever experience a sociopath significant other, any advice to make sure they dont procede to do damage to u and ur reputation even after u have broken up with her and explained 1000000 times to her u dont care who she dates or what she does in her life, heck the last guy told me dude she made me hate u so much i wanted to bust the tires of ur car, and i never met or seen the dude b4, it was fate that he was a friend of a distant friend and we were introduced by guy friends and he was like wow ur an awesome guy, nothing like what i heard or expected, and from there he told me the story, which was similiar situation she put me in with 2 other guys previously which i was lucky enough to find out and straighten stuff out with them. heck i was having random people hate me so much and i didnt even know who they are. I loved this girl and man did i treat her good and i admit we had some good times b4 her sociopathic behavior was detected and exposed by me, what to do people?
Thanks!
http://www.mcafee.cc/Bin/sb.html
My problem is even as an ex, i feel bad for her, its like i am the only one who understands her inside out, all the other guys she had in her life used her for a$$ or some other motive, i am a sincerely huge hearted guy, i know with her disease she can be dangerous to me as i found out she been doing things as making guys i never met hate me so i wont meet them or i wont ever be introduced to them, like she has this charm and innocence to her that she is very convincing, the problem is, after i got fed up trying to help her and she put my life more in anxiety, i find out that she still doing what she was, like this girl comes from a Very conservative upscale family and if her dad even found out she dated one guy he prob go nuts, so i think she does her deviant acts and is scared i will tell her cousin who is my friend and it will get to her dad, the prob is i dont care about the situation and wont tell anyone, the other guys she cheated on tryed to screw her over with sending the love emails to her family etc... but she got away with it by framing the confession letters on her own female cuzzin and best friend of 14 years, she also framed all her best friends to get her butt from being caught or her premiscuioisity from being exposed, the problem is i am the only person that knows her inside out, alll her other bfs just lasted a few months and trashed her, its like i want to help her, but heck i am finding out that she is making people behind my back hate me god knows how so i wont be introduced to them so i wont know she Fu-ked with them. How do i get myself out of this web, she always cries when i tell her to stop or i will bust her out and promises she will, but she still destroys my impeccable reputation by making **** up to every bf she goes out with so i wont meet them, and i mean she dates 3-4 guys at a time, its like part of her disease, and she takes risks and meets guys online and does sexual stuff with them etc... not thinking of her health. So i have random people hating me which i dont know, and i didnt do a single bad thing to this girl when we were together, i was the best bf ever, she would admit that she hates hurting me and she loves me and bla bla and everytime i catch her or caught her in her act she would ask for one more chance or cry and say i am the only one she has and without me she is lost or bla bla. I made it clear to her that i dont want her as a gf after i found out and saw and heard first hand from a few of the guys she dated how she made them hate me and they believed her cause she was their gf and sounded believable etc... so i got the local guys that go to my school that i found out she was associated with clearedup and we found out she a sociopath, well they all called her and call her a Wh*re but i consider her a sociopath cause she fits every single symptom in the website i listed. Anyone ever experience a sociopath significant other, any advice to make sure they dont procede to do damage to u and ur reputation even after u have broken up with her and explained 1000000 times to her u dont care who she dates or what she does in her life, heck the last guy told me dude she made me hate u so much i wanted to bust the tires of ur car, and i never met or seen the dude b4, it was fate that he was a friend of a distant friend and we were introduced by guy friends and he was like wow ur an awesome guy, nothing like what i heard or expected, and from there he told me the story, which was similiar situation she put me in with 2 other guys previously which i was lucky enough to find out and straighten stuff out with them. heck i was having random people hate me so much and i didnt even know who they are. I loved this girl and man did i treat her good and i admit we had some good times b4 her sociopathic behavior was detected and exposed by me, what to do people?
Thanks!
