Thanks TT!
Yeh, I like to think of it as having a strong personality. I'm good a being nice, but I'm also good at telling you like it is. I have patience, but the amount of crap I'm willing to deal with from you has an inverse relationships with how well I know you (i.e. new people get a lot of patience, best friends are going to hear the cold hard truth). I have no idea if this has to do with it at all, but I was very much a tom boy growing up and still would rather go out and have a beer and watch football on sunday than go get manicures and martinis. I played every sport under the sun and was the only girl on all of my teams (but I was still better than most of the boys) plus, almost all of the neighborhood kids that were my age were boys. I like being strong and authoritative and honestly if people can't handle it, I probably don't want to surround myself with them.
Anyway, point being, I'm a girl/woman/female/whatever-you're-called-at-this-age but I'm one that doesn't shy away from a fight or from an opportunity to be on top (sounds dirty hehe). I am most definitely not a barefoot and pregnant in the kitchen, waiting for her man kind of woman.