You guys have kids? Sounds like you have a nice thing going. You have a someone attractive with a nice body who takes care of themselves (nice armcandy)
and you can make the $$ and support the family. Maybe he can be the stay at home dad and take care of the kids. Hey.. if you're happy with that. That's awesome..
Most women like the sound of that scenario.. (the typical male role). But, when they actually have it.. I think many find it fun for a while.. but in the long run. Those pastures are not that green after all..
Many women end up longing for a man who can actually bring home some $$ of their own and relieve them of the burden of supporting the family, so they can enjoy time with the kids themselves instead of staying on call at the hospital all week. And when you want to retire at the age of 55.. don't expect your husband to be able to pick up the slack on the bills etc. You may have to work well into your late 60s (many docs do these days) with reduced reimbursements etc. The role sounds nice when your young.. but not always that nice when your in it.
Also, if you look at % of doctors who are married to other Doctors (men vs women) More female docs are married to other male docs.. than men. Men docs usually want something like me.. someone who is willing to take care of the kids and support them.
So.. Some female docs who have the arm candy husband who is a stay at home dad.. then they get tired of the job and burnt out after a few years.. then they divorce hubby for a $$ upgrade and marry a fellow doctor colleage who they spend a lot of time with at the hospital.
Women are more likely to marry up than men.
This isn't the rule.. but I know this happens to many female docs. I hope you're not one of them and can hold out if this is what you want.
Good Luck!
Peace.