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I hope someone doesn't mind giving me a little advice or some insight into my situation! OK My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years now. He is currently in his first year of med school in OKlahoma while I am in South Carolina working. I am planning on moving out there in May since we are talking about marriage and I am not having any luck in the job field here.
Things have not been going well lately. He is exams this week or test block as they call it I guess so I understand he is stressed to the max. I have not talked to him for more than 7 minutes a day if I even get to talk to him and when we do talk he sits there in silence and says nothing to me. He doesn't even crack a smile or pretend that he is glad to talk to me. Like I said I understand he is stressed and I do not know what it is like to be a med student. This leads me to wonder if this is what it will be like when/if I move out there. Am I going to get ingored when I do see him and he will be me rude and just not nice to me? This move for me is huge. I am leaving my family and friends and everything I have known to be with him. Where he will be working long hours so I will be by myself a majority of the time. I am working on going back to school for my masters but am I crazy for moving to be with him? Should I expect this behavior from now on? I mean I am not asking him to call me every hour or email me constantly but a nice 15 mins sincere conversation would be nice.
Things have not been going well lately. He is exams this week or test block as they call it I guess so I understand he is stressed to the max. I have not talked to him for more than 7 minutes a day if I even get to talk to him and when we do talk he sits there in silence and says nothing to me. He doesn't even crack a smile or pretend that he is glad to talk to me. Like I said I understand he is stressed and I do not know what it is like to be a med student. This leads me to wonder if this is what it will be like when/if I move out there. Am I going to get ingored when I do see him and he will be me rude and just not nice to me? This move for me is huge. I am leaving my family and friends and everything I have known to be with him. Where he will be working long hours so I will be by myself a majority of the time. I am working on going back to school for my masters but am I crazy for moving to be with him? Should I expect this behavior from now on? I mean I am not asking him to call me every hour or email me constantly but a nice 15 mins sincere conversation would be nice.