I agree, med school is SUPPOSED to be HARD. Otherwise, anyone could do it, right?! You don't want just anyone taking care of your loved one, you only want the very best.
" I knew that I wanted to become a doctor to help people, but I had given little thought to the process. I was poorly prepared for many things: the pressure to excel in ways that seemed so far from caring for people; rapidly mounting debts I signed off on every semester; a roller coaster existence from chronic lack of sleep; hazing from the more experienced students and residents; and the realities of patient suffering despite my best efforts."
Well, gee weez, Dr. Chen, what the hell did you expect med school to be, CLUB MED? 😱
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WHY are med students so quick to dismiss other students who talk about their struggles in med school and residency? Look on SDN. Anyone who talks about how tough medical school was is greeted with a wave of, "Well, I'm an
MS-1, and I LOVE MEDICINE MORE THAN EVER!!!!" Whoop-de-freaking-do, what does that prove? Nothing.
Or someone says, "I had a really tough time emotionally in medical school, which I wasn't prepared for," and then 4 other people (invariably including at least 1 pre-med) jump in with, "Well, what did you expect?!? A Club Med vacation?!?! DUH!"
Ugh.
Why med students are so quick to make snap judgements about their fellow students is beyond me.
Sure, some people are whiners. And some people are just venting.
But some people are
GENUINELY struggling. I was one of those (a lot of stuff outside of school wasn't going well, and on top of med school....it was very overwhelming a lot of times), and everytime I reached out for help, I was always told that I should be "grateful" that I was one of the fortunate few to make it into medical school. That's not helpful.
We're warned not to make snap judgements about our patients - not all people who come into the ED with severe pain are drug seekers, and not all young men with chest discomfort have cocaine-chest pain. So why do med students make snap judgements about other med students?
Learn how to help your fellow classmates out. Take 30 seconds and check in with someone who looks more tired than usual. Take 5 minutes and listen to someone vent for a bit. And when someone confides in you that, "maybe medical school was a mistake," just offer sympathy and compassion, and NOT advice or instructions or misguided attempts at motivation.