Obstetrics Case

[Geekchick921]

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Sorry to disappoint you, but I won't be doing that, despite how much of a melodramatic whiner you think I might be.

That said, I think it's sad that you think women that aren't happy with their birth experience are whiners, or that their feelings aren't justified. Do you really think they aren't grateful that they and their babies are healthy, or that they would prefer a sick child if they could have had "the perfect birth"? How a woman feels about her birth is important as a quality of life issue.

FWIW, I used to think women with negative birth experiences needed to get over it, too, right up until my daughter's birthday. I am going to assume you do not have children, or if you do, that your wife/girlfriend/whatever was fortunate enough to be completely satisfied with her birth, because it does change your perspective.

 

[Southpaw]

Sorry to disappoint you, but I won't be doing that, despite how much of a melodramatic whiner you think I might be.

That said, I think it's sad that you think women that aren't happy with their birth experience are whiners, or that their feelings aren't justified. Do you really think they aren't grateful that they and their babies are healthy, or that they would prefer a sick child if they could have had "the perfect birth"? How a woman feels about her birth is important as a quality of life issue.

FWIW, I used to think women with negative birth experiences needed to get over it, too, right up until my daughter's birthday. I am going to assume you do not have children, or if you do, that your wife/girlfriend/whatever was fortunate enough to be completely satisfied with her birth, because it does change your perspective.

I'm not speaking directly to you, and I am sorry for your experience, but the whole discussion points specifically to how spoiled 'western' women are. There are millions of women living in very desperate parts of the world who would give anything to give birth in a US hospital, essentially ensuring the health of mom and baby.

 

[hoyden]

Yeah, exactly.

This is why I hate whiners. You don't really have a cogent rebuttal, except that your feelings were hurt.

But, no doubt, you'll go find your gaggle of equally melodramatic girlfriends to rehash, over hours and hours, how this guy "coprolalia" on some forum was, gosh, such a complete jerk!

Like I said before, get over yourself.

-copro

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***literally rolling eyes***

this touchy-feely BS is why I hate OB so much.

My nanogenarians are SOOO much better.

 

[coprolalia]

Sorry to disappoint you, but I won't be doing that, despite how much of a melodramatic whiner you think I might be.

That said, I think it's sad that you think women that aren't happy with their birth experience are whiners, or that their feelings aren't justified. Do you really think they aren't grateful that they and their babies are healthy, or that they would prefer a sick child if they could have had "the perfect birth"? How a woman feels about her birth is important as a quality of life issue.

FWIW, I used to think women with negative birth experiences needed to get over it, too, right up until my daughter's birthday. I am going to assume you do not have children, or if you do, that your wife/girlfriend/whatever was fortunate enough to be completely satisfied with her birth, because it does change your perspective.

-copro