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This might turn into a bit of a rant/sob story.
So, it all started in the middle of January. My goat Maggie died after a C-section, pneumonia, and mastitis. We did take her/call the vet about her and there was nothing else that could be done. I still don't feel like I'm over her death because Maggie was my best friend through high school (I didn't fit in during high school at all) and I feel still feel somewhat guilty about her death even though I know in my head its not my fault.
Now, I have another goat that is dying, Maggie's sister, Bree. This time the circumstances are even more awful. Bree lost a lot of weight after she aborted her kids, but she still ate. Then, after Maggie died she more or less stopped eating grain. My mom was convinced that if she shoved food and water down Bree's throat she would get better or she would be able to hold out until May or so when the goats get their health papers. We gave her loads of wormers a couple of weeks ago when my mother decided that was what was wrong with her. Bree did look better on and off, but this last week she took a turn for the worst. Now, she looks like she's ready to die and she's acting rather dull. My mom in these last couple days decided that it was finally time to take her to the vet. However, the vet that the goats usually go to has not called back. My mom is convinced that only two vets in our area know about goats (the one who won't call back and one out for surgery). I'm trying to convince her to take her to the mixed animal vet that I just started shadowing at least to put her to sleep if nothing can be done, but apparently, to my mother, euthanasia is murder. Also, she apparently isn't suffering because she's just standing there quietly with her head down while a liquid comes out of her mouth. I can't stand when other people don't take their animals to the vet when they are suffering like this, and now my mother is letting it happen to Bree, and I hate watching it. I haven't really wanted to go out to the barn much since Maggie's death, but now I don't want to at all. My mother has never done anything like this before, and I would have taken Bree somewhere myself if I could put her in my car. I know that it isn't really feasible to spend a bunch of money on bigger animals that aren't meant as pets, but this seems cruel to me because Bree is a pet to me at least.
I know that this death is most likely going to be harder for me to get over then Maggie's. The guilt will be much worse because I'm not going to be able to know if anything could have been done and I'm already starting to blame it on my mother along with the fact that she's so young and reminds me of her sister. So, what have you guys found to be the best way to get over a pet's death?
So, it all started in the middle of January. My goat Maggie died after a C-section, pneumonia, and mastitis. We did take her/call the vet about her and there was nothing else that could be done. I still don't feel like I'm over her death because Maggie was my best friend through high school (I didn't fit in during high school at all) and I feel still feel somewhat guilty about her death even though I know in my head its not my fault.
Now, I have another goat that is dying, Maggie's sister, Bree. This time the circumstances are even more awful. Bree lost a lot of weight after she aborted her kids, but she still ate. Then, after Maggie died she more or less stopped eating grain. My mom was convinced that if she shoved food and water down Bree's throat she would get better or she would be able to hold out until May or so when the goats get their health papers. We gave her loads of wormers a couple of weeks ago when my mother decided that was what was wrong with her. Bree did look better on and off, but this last week she took a turn for the worst. Now, she looks like she's ready to die and she's acting rather dull. My mom in these last couple days decided that it was finally time to take her to the vet. However, the vet that the goats usually go to has not called back. My mom is convinced that only two vets in our area know about goats (the one who won't call back and one out for surgery). I'm trying to convince her to take her to the mixed animal vet that I just started shadowing at least to put her to sleep if nothing can be done, but apparently, to my mother, euthanasia is murder. Also, she apparently isn't suffering because she's just standing there quietly with her head down while a liquid comes out of her mouth. I can't stand when other people don't take their animals to the vet when they are suffering like this, and now my mother is letting it happen to Bree, and I hate watching it. I haven't really wanted to go out to the barn much since Maggie's death, but now I don't want to at all. My mother has never done anything like this before, and I would have taken Bree somewhere myself if I could put her in my car. I know that it isn't really feasible to spend a bunch of money on bigger animals that aren't meant as pets, but this seems cruel to me because Bree is a pet to me at least.
I know that this death is most likely going to be harder for me to get over then Maggie's. The guilt will be much worse because I'm not going to be able to know if anything could have been done and I'm already starting to blame it on my mother along with the fact that she's so young and reminds me of her sister. So, what have you guys found to be the best way to get over a pet's death?