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TPS report said:
so, is this a good and direct way to communicate to a guy that you are interested?

how does the guy interpret such an aggressive and bold move by the girl?
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It's an almost-invariably positive sign. The only downer is if the girl has absolutely no redeeming virtues, such that looking at her/listening to her/smelling her/whatever does not even have one hook.
 
HIANMI said:
Is that what group dating is?
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yah. well I've always thought of it like this:

like a bunch of guys and girls hang out in a clique.

But the clique is a facade for the underlying sexual tensions between the guys and girls.

it's a safe non-threatening, non-commital way for people to date.

eventuallly people hook up secretly
 
TPS report said:
yah. well I've always thought of it like this:

like a bunch of guys and girls hang out in a clique.

But the clique is a facade for the underlying sexual tensions between the guys and girls.

it's a safe non-threatening, non-commital way for people to date.

eventuallly people hook up secretly
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Oh...guess it's about my turn then 😉
 
Apollyon said:
It's an almost-invariably positive sign. The only downer is if the girl has absolutely no redeeming virtues, such that looking at her/listening to her/smelling her/whatever does not even have one hook.
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well, it's my standard hand shake.

i like to give a friendly greeting to old friends.
 
TPS report said:
so, is this a good and direct way to communicate to a guy that you are interested?

how does the guy interpret such an aggressive and bold move by the girl?
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I would take it to mean that she wants to sleep with me. And I would attempt to take her back to my place and sabatoge any chance of a relationship.
 
TPS report said:
are you group dating anyone?
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I guess so. 😱 Just didn't know it. I have lots of group dates. I can think of about 4 different circles of friends (where I feel the tension at least).
 
TPS report said:
so, is this a good and direct way to communicate to a guy that you are interested?
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That, and also potentially sexual assault! 😀

how does the guy interpret such an aggressive and bold move by the girl?
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Either with a strong urge to sleep with her, or a strong urge to run away (maybe from intimidation).
 
MirrorTodd said:
I would take it to mean that she wants to sleep with me. And I would attempt to take her back to my place and sabatoge any chance of a relationship.
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oh , so it is true that a guy will only really date a girl he respects (meaning one he hasn't slept with)

after how many dates is it "ok" for a girl to sleep with a guy?
 
Kind of on-subject, but really way off. Has anyone ever been told they can hold a good fight when they are sleeping?
 
TPS report said:
oh , so it is true that a guy will only really date a girl he respects (meaning one he hasn't slept with)

after how many dates is it "ok" for a girl to sleep with a guy?
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I think that it takes at least a few dates. That's if you're looking for a relationship. Do many relationships last when 2 people sleep together the first time they meet? However, it is always situational.
 
TPS report said:
oh , so it is true that a guy will only really date a girl he respects (meaning one he hasn't slept with)

after how many dates is it "ok" for a girl to sleep with a guy?
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I always ask that question. I was told by my brother (sadly, we were open about this stuff) that he knew his wife was a keeper when she held out on him for a really long time. Every other girl that he talked to that gave it to him in decent time he dumped.
 
HIANMI said:
Kind of on-subject, but really way off. Has anyone ever been told they can hold a good fight when they are sleeping?
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heheeeee
one of my ex BF's once told me that I started kicking him in the middle of the night.

of course I don't remember doing that but he says I did

what about you?
 
leviathan said:
I like your signature, Todd.
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Chris Knight: So, if there's anything I can do for you, or, more to the point, to you, you just let me know.
Susan: Can you hammer a six-inch spike through a board with your penis?
Chris Knight: Not right now.
Susan: A girl's gotta have her standards.
 
TPS report said:
heheeeee
one of my ex BF's once told me that I started kicking him in the middle of the night.

of course I don't remember doing that but he says I did

what about you?
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Let's just say I've woken up with way too many bruises. I guess I'm kind in the day time, but I get all my anger out when I sleep.
 
MirrorTodd said:
I think that it takes at least a few dates. That's if you're looking for a relationship. Do many relationships last when 2 people sleep together the first time they meet? However, it is always situational.
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yeah. it's what I figured.

maybe I just don't want a serious relationship.

😕 😕 😕

maybe I just sabotage all my relationships
 
HIANMI said:
Let's just say I've woken up with way too many bruises. I guess I'm kind in the day time, but I get all my anger out when I sleep.
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what/who are you beating in your sleep?
 
TPS report said:
yeah. it's what I figured.

maybe I just don't want a serious relationship.

😕 😕 😕

maybe I just sabotage all my relationships
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That and/or you just haven't found a good person yet.
 
TPS report said:
what/who are you beating in your sleep?
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I used to have a shelf next to my bed. That gave me the bruises. An ex used to wake me up because I would start doing weird stuff.
 
leviathan said:
Don't let the stuffed animal avatar fool you; I am the alpha male tiger! :meanie:
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ohh, now you have my attention....I like Alpha Males.

now you just have to ignore me and be somewhat mean to me and then I'll really like you.
 
MirrorTodd said:
I talk in my sleep sometimes. I've always wanted to tape myself sleeping and see how I act.
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Me too (about the taping part)!!! The only 'talking' I've done are screams. Probably not good.
 
Apollyon said:
Publicly, not privately.

Then again, private what? What am I talking about?

(whistles)

How 'bout them Yankees, huh? Great weather we're having!

(more whistles)
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Nice.
 
MirrorTodd said:
I talk in my sleep sometimes. I've always wanted to tape myself sleeping and see how I act.
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according to my parents, they said I used to talk in my sleep as a kid.

no one else ever said that so I probably grew out of it
 
TPS report said:
yeah. or, I need lots of therapy.

probably all of the above
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From your statement about the guys ignoring/being mean, I'd say you just aren't ready and definitely haven't found a keeper.
 
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