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HIANMI said:
Everyone around us gets the vibe that we are together...or maybe they are just hoping one of us singles are going to hook up.
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one of you needs to Just Do It and make the first move


I think we really need a boy's perspective on this one,

Todd Consult please...!
 
TPS report said:
oh mah gawd. that is incredible.

I love his dedication to school but I would rather die than not date or.....you know.....uh, how should I say.....gett any love....for 4 yrs.

kill me first!
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haha...I've found it's not that hard to go without after it's been a while. Just my $0.02.
 
Well, I'd say that you girls are doing the right thing. Confusion is a major part of the process. It can't be overlooked. I don't feel like their should be an equal share of the power. I would want to a girl to make me want her, and that's where the "games" come in.
 
MirrorTodd said:
Well, I'd say that you girls are doing the right thing. Confusion is a major part of the process. It can't be overlooked. I don't feel like their should be an equal share of the power. I would want to a girl to make me want her, and that's where the "games" come in.
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So you like the "hard to get" game.
 
So many close times...but just never happened.
 
I think he needs to "man" up and get with the program. Being dedicated to school is great, but shouldn't be an excuse to not have a little companionship.
 
I've found it's dangerous if we both go out drinking and get drunk. But he's wise...knows not to do something like that inebriated.
 
Least not with a friend. No regrets to have.
 
Very true. I'll keep pursuing..but the game is starting to get old.
 
Then again...nothing better has come along.
 
We almost went somewhere alone together last weekend, but we ended up crashing (sleeping) instead.
 
Probably going to a formal again with him though. Unless someone else comes along.
 
MirrorTodd said:
To a point. I think that it makes the goal that much more desirable. But it can go too far. I wouldn't want to be strung along without going out on a date for very long.
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after a date, if you like the girl, do you still need to feel like you're "pursuing" her...? does she need to be like unavailable a little bit so you want her more?
 
TPS report said:
after a date, if you like the girl, do you still need to feel like you're "pursuing" her...? does she need to be like unavailable a little bit so you want her more?
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Nice way to the male brain!!! Like your ways of thinking.
 
HIANMI said:
Probably going to a formal again with him though. Unless someone else comes along.
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wait a sec! this sounds like a John Waters movie...Pretty in Pink!!

you guys are gonna end up together, I can feel it!
 
Thinking about it...we somehow started holding hands (I know...so little and weird) at the formal last year...
 
TPS report said:
wait a sec! this sounds like a John Waters movie...Pretty in Pink!!

you guys are gonna end up together, I can feel it!
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Now you get that vibe too...and through the internet. haha
 
Is it bad when your old roommate says she's expecting a wedding invitation?
 
TPS report said:
after a date, if you like the girl, do you still need to feel like you're "pursuing" her...? does she need to be like unavailable a little bit so you want her more?
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I'm not sure. I think that's true for me. It wouldn't be so much the need to "pursue" her, but the idea that she doesn't "need" me. I like women to be independent
 
HIANMI said:
Thinking about it...we somehow started holding hands (I know...so little and weird) at the formal last year...
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oh for god's sakes, you guys ARE already dating.
 
TPS report said:
oh for god's sakes, you guys ARE already dating.
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but it's lilke the Emperor's New Clothes.

no body wants to just come out and say the truth. The emperor is neked...and you guys are freaking dating and about to get married and have 10,000 babies
 
TPS report said:
but it's lilke the Emperor's New Clothes.

no body wants to just come out and say the truth. The emperor is neked...and you guys are freaking dating and about to get married and have 10,000 babies
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Oh wow...ouch! (the babies part)
 
HIANMI said:
Oh wow...ouch! (the babies part)
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aw shucks! thought you would recognize that line about 10,000 babies....it's from one of my fav moves....American Beauty..
 
My old roommate said we are just going to skip the whole dating and engagement and just show up married some day. haha
 
MirrorTodd said:
I'm not sure. I think that's true for me. It wouldn't be so much the need to "pursue" her, but the idea that she doesn't "need" me. I like women to be independent
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can you elaborate on that. like what do you mean "independent"
 
TPS report said:
aw shucks! thought you would recognize that line about 10,000 babies....it's from one of my fav moves....American Beauty..
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I'm a little behind on the movies department... I'm almost up to date on the Disney movies though...
 
HIANMI said:
My old roommate said we are just going to skip the whole dating and engagement and just show up married some day. haha
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are you attracted to him? like could you full on assault him and make out for like hours on end?
 
Don't see that being a problem.
 
Just had a funny thought...wonder if he is ever on this site, and if so, wonder if he reads this thread...
 
TPS report said:
can you elaborate on that. like what do you mean "independent"
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Un-clingy. Just because we went on one date doesn't mean I want a girl to hang around all the time and immediately want to spend all her time with me. Time spent with a girl is great, but I would want her to have interests outside of the new "boyfriend."
 
MirrorTodd said:
Un-clingy. Just because we went on one date doesn't mean I want a girl to hang around all the time and immediately want to spend all her time with me. Time spent with a girl is great, but I would want her to have interests outside of the new "boyfriend."
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What if they were already around you that much?
 
what does Hianmi mean? like how did you come up with it
 
HIANMI said:
Now I'm confused...do you mean my thought?
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I was just wondering what your user name means.

"Hianmi" --is that a real word? how did you come up with it.
🙂
 
HIANMI said:
What if they were already around you that much?
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I don't think it would be a problem then. I suppose "buffer is the term I'm looking for. I like relationships to develop over time, not overnight. And if you have spent a lot of time already with that person, then a buffer period is not needed.
 
TPS report said:
I was just wondering what your user name means.

"Hianmi" --is that a real word? how did you come up with it.
🙂
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It's my initials...kind of...the first two letters of each name...backwards. HI = first part of last name, AN=middle, MI=first
 
MirrorTodd said:
I don't think it would be a problem then. I suppose "buffer is the term I'm looking for. I like relationships to develop over time, not overnight. And if you have spent a lot of time already with that person, then a buffer period is not needed.
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I see. You are really quiet tonight Todd. Are you ok?
 
HIANMI said:
It's my initials...kind of...the first two letters of each name...backwards. HI = first part of last name, AN=middle, MI=first
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OH!! I am a **** because I thought it was a word (like in japanese or something) and have been wondering how to say it and was thinking hee-ahn-mee and then I was like High-an-migh
 
HIANMI said:
It's my initials...kind of...the first two letters of each name...backwards. HI = first part of last name, AN=middle, MI=first
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Didn't want the real initials...then someone would get the wrong impression "MAH"
 
TPS report said:
OH!! I am a **** because I thought it was a word (like in japanese or something) and have been wondering how to say it and was thinking hee-ahn-mee and then I was like High-an-migh
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haha...nice...actually, most of my things are "mianhi" and everyone thinks it may be some hawaiian word
 
MirrorTodd said:
You girls are sending me deep into thought. I'm really quiet when I'm thinking. I tend to go inside myself a lot.
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Deep thought about???? It's ok...we share, so you can too.
 
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