Peace be unto you, DragonFly.
First, I just want to say thank you for such an enlightened post. Very nice to see!
saladin
I agree with you that coprolalia's supposed Koran quotes posted above are inaccurate...I have read the Koran and I don't see those passages in there...it seems they have either made up the stuff, or taken great liberties with their translation. I agree that most of the violent passages in the Koran really deal with defending your religion from invaders, and/or instances of war. It basically says avoid fighting if you can,but if not then defend yourself.
Exactly correct. God says in the Quran that aggression is not permitted, except at those who aggress upon you. It is only allowed to fight those who fight you for your faith, drive you and your people out of their homes, etc.
I have been reading the Koran and it seems to me to be in many ways similar to the Old Testament...lots of admonitions about being obedient to God, avoiding idol worshipers (must have been common back in the day?) and also being willing to fight to defend your religion.
I really encourage you to download the Oxford translation of the Quran that I linked to in my previous post. It really is the best translation I have seen...by far! It stays true to the text but at the same time avoids being cumbersome, which I think that some of the other translations become due to the conversion from one language (Arabic) to another (English).
With regards to idol worshiping, I think it is very important to understand that the main message of Islam is simply: there is no deity worthy of worship except God. The admonitions in the Quran are not simply against idol worshipers, but rather against all those who associate partners with God. The Quran argues that *most* human beings are guilty of
shirk (associating partners with worship). Muslims believe that this was true not only then (i.e. as you said, idol worship was common then, as the Quran was revealed to an idol worshiping people), but also today.
We believe that Islam is not only a monotheistic faith, but the purest of monotheisms. There is a very stringent commitment to this idea of monotheism in Islam.
Islam contends that Christians took Jesus (son of Mary) as a god besides God, that Jews took their rabbis as gods besides God (because they allowed the rabbis to legislate the Law, i.e. placing the Talmud at the level of the Old testament), Hindus and other religions are obviously polytheistic, and even atheists and the like Islam contends are atheists because--as the Quran says--they placed themselves as gods, or their desires.
(I understand some of the above would be offensive to others, but it is only a theological difference, as Christians would argue that Muslims will not be saved for not taking Jesus as their savior Lord.)
What I mean to say is that it is much more than just a rejection of idolatry, if by that one means simply stones crafted in the shape of gods. Rather, a Muslim is commanded to completely unify all forms of worship towards the One God. So, for example, the Quran repeatedly says not to ask anyone for help except for God, rejecting the concept that some religions (and some sects of Islam) have, namely that one can go through saints or intermediaries to reach God. All of the various acts of worship must be directed towards God, and it is much more than just prayer, since a lot of things come under the banner of worship.
The Quran teaches us that the ONLY purpose for our creation is to worship God alone. That is why we were created. Hence, there is a very strong emphasis in Islam on this topic, and it is the beginning, middle, and end of Islam.
You are right, there are a lot of bloodthirsty sounding passages in the Old Testament, however if you are really trying to argue that Christianity is equally violent vs. some other religions like Islam, I think you would need to be quoting Jesus. I am not too religious, but I have to say that out of the major world religions, Christianity (IF one actually follows its tenets) is the most peaceful one, at least of the religions I'm familiar with (i.e. Judaism, Islam, Christianity). I guess Buddhism might be up there too...
I do not think Christianity is a blood-thirsty religion. As I said earlier, I think Christianity is--for the most part--a religion of love. You see, what I believe is that all religions have soft readings and hard readings. What I mean by this is that some people will read the books and texts, highlighting the softer side of the religion, whereas others will read the *same* books and texts to get a very harsh religion. In other words, it's not so much the religion itself, but moreso the people who interpret them.
I realize that the crusades happened, but I think it would be hard for someone to argue that Jesus would have supported the crusades...or killing anyone. That's really not what he preached...so if you look at it in a historical context, it was basically misguided, from the perspective of the Christian belief system.
I agree 100%. I would not at all contend that the Crusades can be used as a proof to say Christianity is a violent religion. It would be as erroneous as to say that Al-Qaeda and terrorism today are a proof that Islam is inherently a violent religion.
I agree that perceptions of US foreign policy (some correct, some incorrect I think) have fueled a dislike of the US by some people in other countries, particularly the Middle East.
Yep.
I also think that regardless of what we do, there are some number of Muslims who will not like us, or anyone in the West, because they feel our way of life is corrupt and believe they need to bring us "in line" with their beliefs and/or punish us for how decadent we are.
Yes, but these would be a very small group of Muslims, and this small group of Muslims would also hate the Muslim majority as well. Furthermore, on the flip side, many "Bible thumping" Christians would hate the majority in the West, calling them decadent in their ways.
Gallup Poll did a survey of the one billion Muslims in the world, and what they found was that the majority of the Muslims admired the West in general, thought that there are many things Muslims can learn from the West, etc., but were just hurt overall by the West's foreign policy.
I strongly recommend the book published by Gallop Poll, which is entitled "Who Speaks for Islam: What a Billion Muslims Really Think", by John Espozito. I think it really shows how the vast majority of the Muslims are people, just like people in the West. We Muslims have always said that the Muslims we see portrayed in the media and news are a minority; this book proves objectively--with statistical backing--that this is very much true.
That is a problem, because I personally don't plan to give up my computer, my music or take to dressing in really long gowns and cover up my face when I go out. I think that these really orthodox beliefs likely have more to do with culture than with religion per se, however...I really can't find much in the Koran saying that women should be covered up head to foot and shouldn't be seen in public...though there are passaged referring to dressing modestly and being chaste.
One really needs to define what is meant by "orthodox". I don't think groups like the Taliban are orthodox at all. I think they don't understand Islam at all, and are in direct violation of it. For example, the way they search peoples' cars and take out music tapes to smash, this is completely inappropriate. Islam forbids such invasion of privacy and private property; in fact, what one does within the privacy of his own home--including fornication--is to be ignored.
It is for example a popular misconception that Islam is a religion which says to go stone or lash anyone who fornicates. Not true! Prophet Muhammad
said that there is lenience in what people do in the privacy of their own homes and cover of the night.
The entire stoning and lashing thing, however, would take me an entire post to explain, and I'm more than happy to do it, God-Willing. Just let me know if you do want me to explain. But in this post, my intention is simply to say that the groups like the Taliban have a completely incorrect understanding of Islam and are not orthodoxy because in fact they go against the classical Islamic scholarly tradition.
I think that today, orthodoxy is represented by Al-Azhar University, and in scholars such as Shaykh Abdullah bin Bayyah, Shaykh Salman al-Oudah, Ustadh Yasir Qadhi, Ustadh Hamza Yusuf, Imam Suhaib Webb, etc. I would say that these all (and many more) are orthodoxy, whereas Taliban and their ilk are not orthodox at all.
I have to say that I have major problems with what the Koran says is the proper role for women, though...and that it says if a women is behaving badly she should be beaten and confined to her house. Ummm...urgh...no that's not OK with me, and I personally doubt that God feels that way.
Prophet Muhammad said:"The most perfect of the believers in their belief are those with the best manners, and the best of you are those who are best with their wives." (Riyadh as-Salihin, Chapter 34, Nr. 278, Ibn-Hanbal, No. 7396)
And Prophet Muhammad advised his disciples:"The best of you is the one who is best towards his wife." (al-Tirmidhi, 3895; Ibn Maajah, 1977).
Prophet Muhammad said:"The people of the household of Muhammad have been surrounded by many women who are complaining about their husbands (abusing them). Those men are not among the best of you." (Sunan Abu Dawud: Book 11, Number 2141)
The Prophet's disciple narrated:"I went to the Apostle of God [Muhammad] and asked him: What do you command about our wives? He replied: "Give them food what you have for yourself, and clothe them by which you clothe yourself, and do not beat them, and do not revile them." (Sunan Abu Dawud, Book 11, Number 2139)
And Prophet Muhammad said explicitly:"Do not beat the female slaves of God." (Sunan Abu Dawud: Book 11, Number 2141)
And Prophet Muhammad said:"None of you should flog his wife." (Sahih Bukhari, Vol.7, #132)
In another instance, Prophet Muhammad condemned a man because he abused his wife. A woman came to him asking whom she should marry, and when the name of the wife-beater came up, Prophet Muhammad showed his disapproval and pointed her to another man:"So far as Abu Jahm is concerned, he is a great beater of women, but but Usama b. Zaid (is good to marry)." (Sahih Muslim, Book 009, Number 3526)
As for Prophet Muhammad's own conduct, this is what the Prophet's wife said after he (the Prophet) had died. Aisha [ra] said:"The Messenger of God [Muhammad] never struck a servant of his with his hand, nor did he ever hit a woman. He never hit anything with his hand, except for when he was fighting Jihad in the cause of Allah." (Musnad Ahmad)
So we have:
(1) The best of you are those best to their wives.
(2) The worst of you are those who beat their wives.
(3) Do not beat your wives.
(4) Men who beat women shouldn't be married.
(5) Prophet Muhammad never hit a woman.
Then what is all this about wife-beating in Islam? Actually, all of this controversy comes from one single verse in the Quran, which the critics of Islam have named "the wife beating verse". However, the truth of the matter is that this verse closes the door to beating one's wife. "What!?" people might say to this. Yes! The verse completely closes the door to hitting one's wife in ALL situations except one single situation, which is when a wife cheats on her husband. In all other situations, it is completely forbidden to hit one's wife, as the Quran says: "seek not against them any means."
Prophet Muhammad said:"Lo! My last recommendation to you is that you should treat women well. Truly they are your helpmates, and you have no right over them beyond that--except if they commit open sexual lewdness (fahisha mubina). If they do, then refuse to share their beds and [if that fails] spank them without indecent violence (ghayra mubarrih). Then, if they desist, do not show them hostility any longer. Lo! you have a right over your women and they have a right over you. Your right over your women is that they not allow whom you hate to enter your bed nor your house. While their right over you is that you treat them excellently in their garb and provision." (Sahih al-Muslim)
Notice that this verse is the Prophetic explanation of the Quranic verse, namely the one that the critics of Islam have dubbed as the "wife-beating verse". That verse is here:"Men are the protectors and maintainers of women, because God has given them more than the other, and because they support them from their means. Therefore, the righteous women are qanitat (obedient to God), and guard in the husband's absence what Allah would have them guard. As for those women whose nushuz you have reason to fear: (1) admonish them; (2) then banish them to beds apart; (3) then hit them (lightly). But if they return to obedience, seek not against them any means. God is Most High!" (Quran, 4:23)
The word "nushuz" above refers to "fahisha mubina", meaning that this verse has nothing to do with when a wife is disobedient in general, but only when she is cheating on her husband. As an Islamic scholar named GF Haddad explains:fahisha mubina = adultery.
Nushuz in the verse, as shown, is an euphemism for adultery because her primary marital duty is spelled out in the hadith as "not allowing whom you hate to enter your bed nor your house." Al-Maziri also said that another interpretation of the words in that hadith said it referred to a woman sitting in seclusion with a stranger inside her husband's house. (Al-Nawawi, Sharh Sahih Muslim.)
Dr. Khalid Abou Fadl explains:The Prophet uses the expression fahisha mubina as the equivalent of nushuz, and that nushuz means a fahisha mubina (a grave and known [sexual] sin). If that is so, then nushuz cannot mean disobedience or a case of simple disagreement. If there is a serious disagreement, then the state may compel an arbitration. But this is entirely different from a fahisha mubina. A fahisha mubina usually means a grave sexual sin. For instance, a fahisha mubina is sexual activity short of intercourse, or intercourse [itself]... A fahisha mubina is not disobedience, arrogance or insolence. It is sexual lewdness.
So the general rule in Islam is that it is categorically forbidden to beat one's wife, as Prophet Muhammad said: "do not beat them" (Sunan Abu Dawood), except for in the one situation, which is fahisha mubina (open sexual lewd act), i.e. catching one's wife with another man in the husband's bed.
But hold your horses...it's not that easy. So you catch your wife in bed with another man, you can't just unbuckle your belt and beat the crap out of her like a lot of men would do. There are three steps you must follow, by Islamic Law.
First: you admonish the wife, i.e. with words. Again, remember we are talking about wives who are nushuz, i.e. openly flouting your authority. So if by your stern words you can get her back in line, i.e. she promises not to do it again, then the matter MUST stop there, and this is what the Quranic verse means by "returning to obedience", whereupon it a Muslim man has "no means against her", i.e. he is disallowed to go to step two or three.
SECOND: If words fail, then you go onto step two which is to stop sleeping in bed with them. At first, I used to think this means that you tell your wife that she must sleep on the sofa, but then an Islamic scholar corrected me and said that it is the man who must sleep on the sofa, not the woman. If this does the trick, then the matter stops here.
THIRD: If all that fails, then you can spank them. However, there are many restrictions to this, as follows:
1) It cannot be done in front of the children, as that would instill poor values in the children and humiliate the mother in front of her own children.
2) He cannot cause her to bleed, nor break any bones, nor leave any mark or bruise on the body.
3) It is forbidden to hit the face and other sensitive areas.
4) And there is one more restriction, which is the miswaq rule, which basically says that the spanking cannot hurt more than the feeling one gets when hit by a toothbrush.
Now I totally understand that all of this would be unacceptable to Westerners, many of which would say that it is never acceptable to hit a woman, no matter in which way. While I understand that, I would like to make it clear that Islam only allows it in this one singular situation.
If a man hits his wife in any other situation--or excessively even when the wife cheated on her husband--then she has the right (which she should use) to go to the court and initiate a divorce, and he will be forced to let her stay in the house, pay an alimony to her, etc. If, for example, she can show a bruise that he caused her (and if the proof goes against him), then the Islamic court takes punitive action against him, including qisas (which is corporal/criminal punishment). This is a long topic, and I've already typed up a book, so I'll just end here.
I'll close by reiterating the command of Prophet Muhammad , as narrated by his disciple:"I went to the Apostle of God [Muhammad] and asked him: What do you command about our wives? He replied: "Give them food what you have for yourself, and clothe them by which you clothe yourself, and do not beat them, and do not revile them." (Sunan Abu Dawud, Book 11, Number 2139)
Again, the supposed "wife-beating" verse in the Quran is actually a prohibition on beating wives, as the emphasis is on "then you have no way against them" and "do not show them hostility any longer", so long as they do not continue in any open sexual lewdness.
I highly recommend www.TheDeenShow.com, as a general resource for Non-Muslims interested in Islam...not just for those who are interested in converting, but for those who want to just increase their general knowledge about the second largest religion in the world.
Peace be unto you.