Hi. Welcome. What follows is a generalized plan based on my own experience and in conversation with other non-trads I've met and/or who've mentored me along my journey. Take it with a grain of salt, as I've not yet gotten into medical school (I will apply next year) and am by no means a voice of authority. I did, however, walk away from a decade-long software engineering career and all the creature comforts that come with that so I kind of understand where you're coming from.
- Take inventory of your life, make sure this is really what you want. Ask yourself why you want to be a doctor, then ask yourself why you want those specific things. Shadow doctors, but more importantly ask everyone you meet how they ended up at their job, whether they love it, and why. Also, make sure your finances are in order. The last thing you want is to have your dreams interrupted because of the unexpected forcing you back to work at levels that compromise your grades.
- Find a place to take your classes. Community college isn't a bad option, but if you can find a formal postbacc for career changers then do that instead. Find more details on postbacc programs here:
- Find a regular clinical gig. Make sure you're getting regular patient contact. Hospice work is great for this. Scribing is also good though that is more passive. Use if you don't know where to start looking. If you're having trouble finding physicians to shadow (most premeds start with their primary care doctor or with family/church friends that are doctors before resorting to cold calling) then you can always ask whatever doctor you volunteer with if you can shadow for a week instead of being their scribe, admin assistant, whatever.
- Unless you already come from a science/engineering background it's probably best to take classes slowly and then ramp up to the MCAT. I placed Biochem and Cell Bio during year 2 because they're all over the MCAT so in this way, you will learn it at a normal pace instead of being self-taught and basically, your studying for final exams would be a good chunk of your MCAT prep. Suggested timeline:
- Year 1
- Fall Semester: General Biology 1 + Lab, General Chemistry 1 + Lab
- Spring Semester: General Biology 2 + Lab, General Chemistry 2 + Lab
- Summer: Organic Chemistry 1 + Lab
- Year 2
- Fall Semester: Organic Chemistry 2 + Lab, Physics 1 + Lab, Cell Biology
- Spring Semester: Physics 2 + Lab, Biochemistry, MCAT prep course
- Summer: Take the MCAT in May or June and then apply to medical school by end of June
- Research is not necessary unless you want to attend a research-heavy medical school like Harvard or UCSF. I don't have an active MSAR subscription (applicant data for all medical schools - but you should get one and look at what schools even accepted students over the age of 40. It's not many and from what I remember most of them are not so research focused. Unless this research is a natural extension of your prior career, I would probably just not bother.
Hope this is helpful. The best advice I ever received was from
@DrMidlife who said that if you can see yourself happy doing anything other than medicine, for the love of God do that instead. But if you can't then definitely continue down this path. Best of luck to you.